hey, jst wanted to ask.. i used to do a fingering to my gf, and after few days of that, she went to the ladies room, and noticed that she had some blood on her pannties.. so im so scared.. BY the way she is virgin.. so cld it be that she lost her virginity .
P.s ( i wasnt fingering so hard or push a lot..)
anotehr P.s ( her cycle started a day after that, so cld that blood be pre-cylce)
thanks 4 ur time.
P.s ( i wasnt fingering so hard or push a lot..)
anotehr P.s ( her cycle started a day after that, so cld that blood be pre-cylce)
thanks 4 ur time.
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Hello! How much blood was there?
This could have been both, her period and her hymen breaking. If you just entered vagina with your finger, you could have ruptured the hymen. I don’t see it as a big deal!
How old is your girlfriend? In my opinion, losing virginity is when you have sex for the first time or when a penis enters a vagina at least a little bit. She could have ruptured her hymen with a tampon, bicycle seat or a vibrator for example and she would still be a virgin.
Is she upset about all of this?
The blood on her panties could have been from the irritation if you for example made a small cut with your finger nails inside her vagina while fingering.
This could have been both, her period and her hymen breaking. If you just entered vagina with your finger, you could have ruptured the hymen. I don’t see it as a big deal!
How old is your girlfriend? In my opinion, losing virginity is when you have sex for the first time or when a penis enters a vagina at least a little bit. She could have ruptured her hymen with a tampon, bicycle seat or a vibrator for example and she would still be a virgin.
Is she upset about all of this?
The blood on her panties could have been from the irritation if you for example made a small cut with your finger nails inside her vagina while fingering.
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well its like a spot of blood, and it ddnt cum out with fingerin, she found it later wen she went to the toilette, and she is nt upset about it at all, bt i was scared on her, and that if she lost viriginity in such a way, and btw i ddnt push insider her vagina hard at all, jst small pushin, as i ddnt feel my fingers tear sumthin, or that it entered inside more, or that a blood came to fingers or anything... bt a day after her cycle begins. so wt that may show? z it 4 cycle thing, or i broke her hymen.?
and btw i heard about surgeries for makin the hymen again, tell me about t!! and how much does it cost.. everything..
thx again
and btw i heard about surgeries for makin the hymen again, tell me about t!! and how much does it cost.. everything..
thx again
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It doesn’t mater if you push too hard or not. Some girls’ hymens are very sensitive and thin membranes, usually very elastic.
Considering she got her period the following day, I would say it was her period although no one can tell for sure except maybe a gynecologist after an examination.
Who of two of you is considering hymen restoration? I think it is a necessary procedure, and yet it costs a fortune. It should be pretty simple, and is done under local anesthesia. However, the recovery period would last somewhere from 6-8 weeks.
Are you ready for the price?
Weeeell, it costs between 2000 and 5000$$$$$! It depends on a surgeon and a country.
Are there any religious reasons for this kind of procedure?
Considering she got her period the following day, I would say it was her period although no one can tell for sure except maybe a gynecologist after an examination.
Who of two of you is considering hymen restoration? I think it is a necessary procedure, and yet it costs a fortune. It should be pretty simple, and is done under local anesthesia. However, the recovery period would last somewhere from 6-8 weeks.
Are you ready for the price?
Weeeell, it costs between 2000 and 5000$$$$$! It depends on a surgeon and a country.
Are there any religious reasons for this kind of procedure?
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well im in Jordan, and i asked how much does it cost, they said about 280 Jordan dinars, which is about 400 $ which is nt that much, and im the 1 who suggest for the surgery even she is nt convinced and she is afraid to do it and afraid to go to a doctor to check if she is even virgin or not, so is there any other way to know if she is virgin or not. i heard if she lost it that time, the next cycle, will be little later than usual, IS THAT TRUE?
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What you heard about first sexual experience and menstrual cycle is not correct. Sexual act has nothing to do with periods neither it should affect them. Her period won’t come earlier and it won’t be late-unless there are other reasons for it.
Listen, if the girl is not upset about losing her virginity this way, there is no need to push her to have the hymen restoration only because you feel guilty about her hymen breaking. And yet, you don’t even know if it broke or not.
There is no need to undergo such treatment and throw your money away just like that. You never know what kind of surgeon you may ran into and you shouldn’t expose this girl to such a procedure.
What does she say about all of this?
Listen, if the girl is not upset about losing her virginity this way, there is no need to push her to have the hymen restoration only because you feel guilty about her hymen breaking. And yet, you don’t even know if it broke or not.
There is no need to undergo such treatment and throw your money away just like that. You never know what kind of surgeon you may ran into and you shouldn’t expose this girl to such a procedure.
What does she say about all of this?
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well maybe u r right of not pushing her hard, bt even so, here in Jordan, it is very important for the girl to be virgin!! and i shld make sure i ddnt ruin her life or anythin, i luv her so much, AND i kno f i really loved her, i shldnt do that, bt that was a mistake.. well another question about the same situation, u said it doesnt matter f it was hard or smooth pushin on the vagina, cuz maybe her hymen is sensitive, right? f that is true, y ddnt it break before, cuz i hv been doin the same fingerin act, and the same pushin force, for about month, so y it ddnt break before,
( NOTICE, last time i made it, it was smooth push, Nt hard, bt even so, she checked later the blood)..
( NOTICE, last time i made it, it was smooth push, Nt hard, bt even so, she checked later the blood)..
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Luciano, like I said, there is no way to find out unless she is checked by a gynecologist.
We can only speculate this way. Here is what I think you should do but of course, it is up to you to decide.
You could use the money that you wanted to give for hymen restoration and make an appointment at the private gynecologist’s office who could give her a proper pelvic examination.
This way you will know if the blood was her period, hymenal breaking or maybe even something else.
You could have also made a small cut on the inside by your fingernail or a hangnail and that she produced some blood.
Talk to your girlfriend….see what she wants and how she feels….and then make a decision together on what to do next.
Let me know how it went! Good luck!
We can only speculate this way. Here is what I think you should do but of course, it is up to you to decide.
You could use the money that you wanted to give for hymen restoration and make an appointment at the private gynecologist’s office who could give her a proper pelvic examination.
This way you will know if the blood was her period, hymenal breaking or maybe even something else.
You could have also made a small cut on the inside by your fingernail or a hangnail and that she produced some blood.
Talk to your girlfriend….see what she wants and how she feels….and then make a decision together on what to do next.
Let me know how it went! Good luck!
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Hey again, well i mentioned before that my girl friend saw a blood after fingering in the ladies room after 3 hours. well as i told u i thought its cycle or she lost virginity, and u said i cnt kno unless a doctor, bt few days ago, she told me somethin new, that the blood was wet and she cld wipe it. i mean it wasnt from before!! so does that confirm its her cycle? i mean can she bleed after tearin her hymen after 3 hours.. shldnt it bleed at instant.??
thx
thx
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Well, I suppose you are right. I bled instantly and there was blood on sheets as well.
If the blood was wet when she first saw it, and her period started right away, then I think it was her period.
Have you been fingering her again? Did you take a look down there to see what it looks like now?
Maybe you can see yourself is there is still some tissue left, then you will know for sure.
But don’t be surprised if you see both tissue and a hole, because there are both at the vaginal hole because menstrual blood goes out through the same hole.
I hope you don’t mind me asking…..are girls allowed to have boyfriends before getting married in Jordan? I mean, this virginity thing seems to mean a lot to you and an important issue in your country, so I was wondering about these other rules.
I had a boyfriend from Jordan actually when I used to live at Cyprus and he wasn’t conservative and didn’t have such religious believes.
Are you planning to marry this girl? Are there still fixed marriages in Jordan?
I really hope you don’t mind me asking such questions but I am really interested! Thank you
If the blood was wet when she first saw it, and her period started right away, then I think it was her period.
Have you been fingering her again? Did you take a look down there to see what it looks like now?
Maybe you can see yourself is there is still some tissue left, then you will know for sure.
But don’t be surprised if you see both tissue and a hole, because there are both at the vaginal hole because menstrual blood goes out through the same hole.
I hope you don’t mind me asking…..are girls allowed to have boyfriends before getting married in Jordan? I mean, this virginity thing seems to mean a lot to you and an important issue in your country, so I was wondering about these other rules.
I had a boyfriend from Jordan actually when I used to live at Cyprus and he wasn’t conservative and didn’t have such religious believes.
Are you planning to marry this girl? Are there still fixed marriages in Jordan?
I really hope you don’t mind me asking such questions but I am really interested! Thank you
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hey, thx 4 helping, anyway no problem in asking, well here in jordan, most of parents dont allow their girls to have boyfriends, bt the girls do it in secret, bt for my girl, her parents know that im a very close friend.
while parents dont have problem with their sons, to have girlfriends, thats the problem here in these countries, that the guy can do wtever he wants, while the girl cant and has many restrictions. well you can take my email f u like,
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btw i like to marry her, bt its really hard, cuz we r from 2 different religions, she is muslim, and im christian, we cn jst do the marriage, if i became muslim or go to america to do the marriage in any church, i dnt kno wt to do.. i really have big problem. and im so in love with her.. anyway thx..
while parents dont have problem with their sons, to have girlfriends, thats the problem here in these countries, that the guy can do wtever he wants, while the girl cant and has many restrictions. well you can take my email f u like,
***this post is edited by moderator *** *** private emails not allowed **
btw i like to marry her, bt its really hard, cuz we r from 2 different religions, she is muslim, and im christian, we cn jst do the marriage, if i became muslim or go to america to do the marriage in any church, i dnt kno wt to do.. i really have big problem. and im so in love with her.. anyway thx..
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I was reading your post and was very confused and interested about the importance of the hymen. I know it is very important to be a virgin for some religions and some cultures, but hymens can break very easily from non-sexual acts. If a girl goes horseback riding it could break or from playing sports or several other different activities. I also was wondering what you believe to be a virgin, because where I come from virgin means that you have never let a penis enter your vagina. While it may be inappropriate to finger someone, it doesn't mean that you have lost your virginity. I enjoy learning about new cultures and would love to hear your explanations on these subjects. Thanks.
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Hi! Thx for answering!
What are you planning on doing now? Have you decided on hymen repairment or not? Personally i am against it but if this means so much for you too, then.......but first you need to find out if the hymen had broken or not!!!
How does your girlfriend feel about this?
What are you planning on doing now? Have you decided on hymen repairment or not? Personally i am against it but if this means so much for you too, then.......but first you need to find out if the hymen had broken or not!!!
How does your girlfriend feel about this?
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