All you idiots saying hes gay are just straight retarded,ocd is a illness and if you think ocd does not mess with ones sexuality than you need to do more reading,Gay ocd is another obsession where someone fears about the most worst thing and worries he might be it meening you might fear of something than question yourself if you are gay and start visualizing gay thoughts and get false impulses-this disorder is actually called HOCD,Homosexual obsessive compulsive disorder,its an anxiety disorder therefore anxiety and fear about any thought can make you vulnerable to actually thinking you might be that person,there is also POCD,ROCD,there is people who think they like to rape kids but in there heart they know they arent that person nor will they ever do such a thing-the same applies to HOCD-Tell your friend to go see a therapist because i believe that hes not gay,just cause you see a good looking guy and get a feeling does not meen you will have sex with them i meen wtf.
Loading...
The groinal tingle could simply be an involuntary manifestation of sympathetic nervous system over-activity due to non-sexual causes such as OCD that is obsessive thoughts and impulses.
I know i get a tingle in my arm and fingers when typing and my OCD is to do with computers. I'm obsessed that i'm gonna turn on the caps lock by accident so when i type the letter "a" (which is right next to Caps lock) I get this tingle in my arm as i look at the key making sure i don't slip off and hit Caps lock. And it sure sounds funny even I think it's funny.
Anyway, i haven't used the caps lock key for several years i just press Shift instead.
but to the OP i think if you are "losing" more than 1hr per day (on average every single day) thinking about this or doing things which you think will make it go away, you make be an ocd sufferer.
I know i get a tingle in my arm and fingers when typing and my OCD is to do with computers. I'm obsessed that i'm gonna turn on the caps lock by accident so when i type the letter "a" (which is right next to Caps lock) I get this tingle in my arm as i look at the key making sure i don't slip off and hit Caps lock. And it sure sounds funny even I think it's funny.
Anyway, i haven't used the caps lock key for several years i just press Shift instead.
but to the OP i think if you are "losing" more than 1hr per day (on average every single day) thinking about this or doing things which you think will make it go away, you make be an ocd sufferer.
Loading...
It definately must be OCD. If he has liked girls in the past he is straight enough said. You cannot turn gay overnight. I suffer from this H-OCD but I just tell myself that's not you, you don't want that. No offense to the people saying he is gay, but you guys just want more gay people to gain more recognition in society. Seriously. I can't imagine myself spending the rest of my life with a man, to me it's gross to others its ideal. I don't care. I'm in love with my girlfriend, I get those tingly groin feelings if I see an attractive guy but I just ask myself. Do you want him? The answer is no. I want my girlfriend, I don't want guys. Most likely the same thing as your friend. I just find it ignorant when gay people don't understand a disorder. If you don't want to be with a man, your not gay. DONE finished.
Loading...
I have the similar problems to your friend though I am only 15 and have been attracted to girls and aroused by girls before, whenever i start thinking of being gay or even something remotely to do with gays i get a tingling in my penis. It is easy for me to get an erection when i think of women or lesbians but when i look at gay porn i have never got an erection. I don't think i have OCD but I don't think i am gay either yet even typing this has given me the tingling (Not necessarily arousal). Has anyone else experienced this? What was the eventual outcome? I simply don't think i am gay, maybe bisexual but i simply want to know.
P.S i have already been told it may be the hormones but dunno
P.S i have already been told it may be the hormones but dunno
Loading...
personally, I believe most people can be bisexual..I am myself, so Im kinda predjudiced inthat sense
Ive always been attracted to both, either a cute girl w/ that button nose and nice figure to that Tom Cruise//Brad Pitt looking of a guy, and to this day, either one turns my head:)
Ive always been attracted to both, either a cute girl w/ that button nose and nice figure to that Tom Cruise//Brad Pitt looking of a guy, and to this day, either one turns my head:)
Loading...
This blog is very informative and i appreciate the honesty everyone has shared. I can honestly say that I have HOCD I just found about HOCD not too long ago. Because of my HOCD & OCD I ended up becoming an alcoholic and a drug addict , thats the only way I self medicated and it almost took my life plenty of times, the irrational thoughts took over my life for a good 8 years but i was too ashamed to admit It and when i did i was made fun of. I was uneducated and i was around people who didnt understand. I would cheaton my girlfriend at the time because i thought that was what straight guys woud do, it even got to a point where i would sleep with prostitutes. I am seeing a therapist and I take Lithium but i need to take something for my obsssesd mind. Whoever is rerading this and suffering please get the right helpand stop it from crippiling your life
Loading...
you're all a bunch of dumb loons. he is not gay. he is having ocd and this is very sad. i feel sorry for him, but if he seeks the right help he will realize its just a bunch of sh*t and be able to move on with his normal life. i had a friend like this and seeing her in pain everyday is torture. its like life is playing a joke on you and you're out of the loop. if you're his best friend and you know this just isn't him then it isn't him. have him see someone. psychiatrists and psychologists see many of these cases a day. and by the way, no one who is actually gay and knows they are gay seeks advice and reassurance in others that they aren't. when doing this, it means you have ocd. i recommend a book called brainlock for this young man. it is very helpful with ocd. sexuality is a weird thing. some women are turned on by women even and some guys are turned on by guys. if he is obsessing over being gay, and the thoughts are imposing and obtrusive and scary, he has ocd. what you can do is support him and this understanding. its a long process sometimes but if you get on medication to lower the ocd and anxiety it will work. have him see someone please? i have had a lot of experience reading books about psychology (my major) and this is typical behavior for someone who had ocd.
Loading...
f**k u. It's called hocd, I have it. It is a living hell. Ever since I was young, I wanted a wife, and this is now f*****g that up. It convinses is that we are gay, even though in reality we aren't, so don't give him the wrong idea.
Loading...
This man is clearly ranting, and upset about something (spelling and grammar). Capitalize you "I's" and use the words "there, their, and they're, in the right context before expecting anyone Intelligent to reply.... Gay boy
Loading...
U wouldn’t understand clearly. The brain can play tricks on you and I’ve had hocd (homosexual ocd) for about 6 months now. He’s not gay and hocd is basically hell I feel bad for him as I am going through the same thing.
Loading...
masturbating with young friends is absolutely normal and has nothing to do with being gay.
Loading...