Gay Or Bi Or what?

Hi Lel

They only one that truly knows the answer to the question about your sexuality is yourself.

In some cases even when the question is asked the answer may already be known and the difficulty lies with being able to accept it and come to terms with it.

I don’t want to offend or upset you but I would encourage you to really consider all the aspects of the question and hopefully that may help you.

From your post you said you would never do stuff with a guy, it may help you to look into your feelings about that.

I think if you can truthfully answer things like why you would never do stuff with a guy, is the reason based on no attraction to guys in that way or is it based on things like that may confirm how I feel, there are also many concerns in relation to sexuality and they need to answered as well could it be that the fears and having difficulty accepting and coming to terms with your sexuality are influencing how you feel about any kind of a same sex relationship.

From your post your attraction seems to be more toward guys than girls and it could be associated with curiosity many guys go through this as well.

So if you could it may help you to answer things like, am I more concerned about the reaction of friends and family, what you feel may be negative affects and is the feeling of doing what is expected influencing you as well.

So again the only one that truly knows the answer to your question is yourself and there is no need to justify who you are attracted to, but in some cases there will be a need to come to terms with why we are attracted to someone.