Im a little bit self-conscious about two things:
Will i be big enough for her? im about 5-6 inches
Will i last long enough?
P.s i can stay hard after orgasm/ejaculation
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Hi Kie,
Average for an adult is 5 - 5 1/2" so you are "big" enough.
As to how long you last, only time will tell.
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Hi KeiSmi, First time sex can seem scary because you are worried about what the other person will think, am i doing it right, what does she think of my penis etc. But sex is partly something that just happens and partly something that you learn. it is also about so much more than body parts and performance. It is about connection and communication. Most girls are not that concerned with penis size. 5-6 inches is more than big enough. As the saying goes, its not size that counts but what you do with it. Which leads to your second question. How long you will last depends on lots of different things and differs from one occasion to another. Sometimes my partner lasts 10 minutes, other times much longer. Also, with your first experience of intercourse you may not last that long because of all the excitement and build up, but you may find that as you have more experience you gain more control and can last longer. For girls and women a lot of the pleasure comes from foreplay and stimulation of the clitoris rather than intercourse, so they aren't as concerned about penis size and performance as men and boys are. Take your time and pleasure her and bring her to orgasm before you have intercourse and she wont be so concerned about how long you last. And if you cum very quickly the first time you might find that the next time you can last much longer. My ex would cum very quickly the first time we had sex in a session but the next time we had sex in the same session he would last much longer. So that's just what we did. The first time we would have intercourse was a bit like an appetizer. The next time was the main course. Everyone was happy.
Relax, take your time and enjoy. And remember, sex is not just about intercourse. For girls and women in particular foreplay is really important. And a satisfied girlfriend is more likely to want to have sex with you again and again and again.
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