:-( my husbands friends wife has been diagnosed with herpes of the eye...her husband now believes that she may have gotten this from being unfaithful...she travels a lot in her job going from state to state and also out of the country to bermuda, carrabean, and others countries..I explained to my husband that she might just have herpes simplex...which is not an STD...is this a true statement or am I just protecting my girlfriend from being found out...that she really is having affairs...? which I am not preved too...if she is...our husbands are atleast 11 to 14 years our senior so their thinking is always it comes from sex...(like getting semen in your)...that's what they think...can that happen as well?