How do I as a female get my husband to get me to orgasim?

congrats on the baby and trying to work on this problem with your husband.  You had another reply that said talk to your husband....I agree.

When my husband & I got together, I'd never had an orgasam.  We went away for a weekend and had nothing but raw, unadulterated sex and it took the 27th time before I had my first orgasam.  It can happen.

The illusive orgasam is not always easy for every one, despite the fact that everyone swears by them.  But you need to talk with your mate.  Spend time just touching each other, w/o looking for the orgasam.  That's when it happens for me.  I know with children in the mix and work it's not always easy, but make the time.  And it's true, for most women, sex starts in the brain.  So wear sexy underwear all day.  Try sending you husband sexy text or call him at work and tell him what you want to do for and to him.  Ask your husband to do romantic unextectant things for you.  i.e. if you tell him you want flowers and the same day he brings home this bouqet, did he do it cause you wanted it or becasue he wanted to.

Talk about the sex before and after.  What you did like, what you didn't.  Don't close yourself off to what he likes, you may find that you get aroused, even when you didn't like it at first.

Lasly, check with your medications.  They may cause dryness in the vaginal area.  They could cause low libido.  Talk with your doctor about some "help" with your medications.  You may have to add herbal remedies to your routine. 

For me, when I take care of myself mentally and get the needed rest, sex comes easier. 

I hope it gets better and it can, just hang in there.  And communicate with your husband.