i graduated form college, but i think i can do nothing. i am not good at talking , i am unsociable and eccentric in others' eyes, i know i got some problem from my failing family education, but what can i do to change the situation. i tried to be more talktive, initiative and build good relationship with others, but i often find people can not understand me. maybe i am in a lack of confidence, and more i often nit-pick... really, where to start? where to find a friend.........