Alright so I'm a 16 year old guy. I've been dating my girl for close to 6 months now and things are starting to go downhill. We used to be the happiest couple in the world and never really got into any serious fights.
A little over a month ago she broke up with me for a week ish. She claimed that she lost the connection between us but pretty much the day after she started to beg for me back. I was really angry and told her everything that I thought about her (most of it wasn't the nicest thing to say) and after all of that she still wanted me back and I decided to give her another chance.
I haven't really bounced back to the way I used to be with her. She's trying really hard to make me happy again and has actually become a lot better of a girlfriend, but i can't shake the angry thoughts i have towards her for breaking up with me, and often have to fight myself to not throw it in her face.
I find it very hard to trust her now and can tell that I'm turning into a bit of an as****e towards her and i hate it. We fight almost every day and seem to be barely holding on.
I know i could fix it if i could trust her the way i used to, and i really want to because i really do care about her, but every time i try all my anger comes back and it ends up failing.
I'm not really sure on what I'm trying to accomplish with this post but that's my situation.
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Hi Tech,
People change. There is no harm in breaking up with her. You will find someone else and so will she. Yes it will hurt at first but you'll get over it. It's all a part of growing up.
Trust issues will destroy a relationship.
It may be hard but move on. You don't have to be nasty to her. Who knows, you might go out with someone else for a while and find out that you really do like the first girl better. She might recognize that she made a mistake too.
You won't know until you date others.
Good luck, hope it helps.
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I know that you are right and have seriously thought of breaking up with her. I have almost done so on several occasions.
But I just can't do it. She has a past of harming herself and has almost killed herself before. I fear that if I break up with her she will start again and I care about her too much to let that happen.
But I will take your advice and if we have another serious fight and I get up the courage I will move on and hopefully she will too.
Thanks for your help.
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hey gone through your problem...and my advice is also same that move on....this is just a part of life...
you will get number of girlfriends....and just one request dont hurt a girl....breakoff but not in one go....
give her some time to get apart from you...make happy ending with no regrets.... :)
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