How to prepare myself for the first night/first time sex.

tampon can brake hymen and any object penetrating the women there is forbiden

please take family planning injection before 2 days from yr marriage. it will protect u for atleast 3 months.

there r so many tablets available in medical shops after sex with in two hours u must take thhose type of tablets not to carry any baby sorry to say thank u

only do blowjobs and sucking

Behave the way you want to behave with him your whole life, be his best friend and he be yours. You don't have to act in any special way just be yourself. Since this is your night of marriage you are to look beautiful. Both of you will be shy and he will be thinking the say way you are thinking. Look into the lives of the Prophets of Allah's (pbuh) wives, you will get much more knowledge.

Note: It's not a must that you consummate on the first night of marriage but you should responds if he asks you to as sex is the right for the husband as mentioned in the Qur'an and woman have the same equal rights. i.e. women can initiate sex, and ask to be satisfied, mentioned in the same Ayat.
To avoid getting pregnant, there are two ways:
1.) to use contraception, this prevents sperms from reaching the egg and fertilization is not possible. Some contraception are halal like condoms. Put preventing pregnancy forever is haram. Research more about contraception according to Islam.
2.) Natural. You may have unprotected sex and still not get pregnant. Women have a monthly cycle and if intercourse occurs in those days then only she gets pregnant. Other days of unprotected intercourse will not lead to pregnancy. Fertilization usually takes place 2 weeks after menstruation. Research online about the fertile days.

About what men look for women during marriage is
Abu Hurayrah, may Allah be pleased with him quotes the Prophet, peace and blessings be upon him, as saying, "A woman is married for four things, i.e., her wealth, her family status, her beauty, and her religion. It's best for men to overlook everything and go for religion.

Once your marriage progress stop being shy with him. Remember according to Islam you are his garment and he is your. Talk to him and discuss any request or problems.

Congratulations.

GABRANE KI KOI BAAT NAHI.SAB KUCH THEEK HOGA/

firstly .... if your husband wants to talk to u be frank and say what have u done before marege and i he wants to have a sex with u u should agreee but u should ask him to where a condom before having sex

she is muslim girl just before having sex just to pray to allah and leave rest to allah he will help you

You could ask him to wear a condom or go on pills

My advice is DONT MARRY A MUSLIM MAN. You will be subjugated as an object, used and abused and controlled by senseless rules. Get out of the Islamic religion and convert to Christianity as soon as you can. Only Jesus Christ can provide the happiness that you long for.

Do not compare Christian to Muslim this are two different things !