Couldn't find what you looking for?

TRY OUR SEARCH!

My husband is a good guy, after 15 years of marriage, he stayed out all night with a buddy, comes home at 6 am, jumps in the shower, takes his underwear off while in the shower (which he usually does not do) Drops his black underwear on the floor and I notice several white (snail tracks) My question to anyone who can give me advice is, was he watching porn with the guys? Could he have been making out with another woman? I don't think he had sex because he would have cleaned up and there were so many "snail tracks" This is a one time occurence, he does not cheat, but was wondering what could he have been doing that night? I have read posts from other people responding to a similar question, I do not think he came in his underwear, that would be a mess in one spot, this was almost like he was making out with someone and he was dry humping (moving around a lot) because the white tracks were in several places. He denies anything happened, He said I could call his buddy (yah right) He said he had too much to drink so he didn't come home that night, he didn't want to call and wake me up. So please, if you have any other ideas, please let me know, Thank you

Loading...

He's  cheating. Dump him and move on.

 

SISTERS ARE DOIN IT FOR THEMSELVES !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Reply

Loading...


Thank you for replying! Since I wrote the post, my husband told me that he was doing "coke" that night and was afraid to tell me because of problems with cocaine usage earlier in our marriage. I have looked for proof of cocaine usage causing "leakage" I am not convinced, does anyone out there think Cocaine could cause "leakage?" Thank you

Reply

Loading...


Cocaine use does not cause anything like that..I am a man and know this is not the problem
Reply

Loading...


Hi,

Well those white stains are definitely because he got "excited". Now , if he says it's from cocaine i say why not?.

Maybe he gets really turned on when he is high. Not everyone has the same high.

Besides, your relationship should be built on trust. Your "investigation" is not good for both of you. If he says he is not cheating on you, you should trust him. If you don't trust him, than i guess he is not the kind of person you want to have around. It goes both ways as well.
Reply

Loading...

I think I might have commented trying to help...but really have not been in that same situation...just spent quite a few years under the influence of cocaine...been a long time...lost my wife partly because of it...and she was right to not stay in that kind if relationship...so I hope all the best in the world for you and god bless you, so possibly my words are not going to do you any good in your question...sorry about that....
Jason
Reply

Loading...


Thank you! Your advise is very helpful and makes sense.
Reply

Loading...


Strip club, lap dances...why does noone think of that?
Reply

Loading...

Dont know if youll check back on this post but if you get high enough you will start to ooze. And thats not a lie because it happens to me.I done it so long takes an insane amount to get me high.Im really not into a lot of stuff I used to do anymore though.Boring now and you dont get what you pay for. I also know lap dances(or makin out) can cause the ooze too.But ill also say when I was on it really bad I didnt want my girl to see me so I would stay gone for long periods . You can tell if someone is getting high because there feet give off a weird stinch ,eyeballs resemble 8balls,and they will talk till you wanna say ****
Reply

Loading...


Thank you! I hope you see that I did get your post and makes ALOT of sense!! thanks!!
Reply

Loading...

Haha... relax, he went to a strip club..lol
Reply

Loading...


THANKS FOR GETTING BACK TO ME, STILL CHECKING FOR MORE INPUT!! APPRECIATE IT
Reply

Loading...

As a penis owner who gets wet at the least bit of arousal, you bring up several viable scenarios. Rest assured, that does not mean he was cheating on you. I find the prospect of getting hard while doing drugs – unless they were done on a stripper's breasts, or something – or, worse yet, watching porn with other men unlikely. Maybe he got a lap dance somewhere. I do find it disconcerting that women check men's underwear. Turns out, your post is not the first query on the topic and I have no idea how I landed on it. It's almost 2020, he should be doing the laundry.

Reply

Loading...