Okay I'm in a sticky situation.
I am a teenage parent 16 and my boyfriend is 16...He is the father of our son, he signed hte birth certificate and everything.
Well he has been living with me since I got pregant. and it's been about a good year and a half since he's been living with me and our son. Well some relly bad mess happened and now he is in Juvie. I have no idea when he will get out or what will happened I've tried to contact his mom but the only thing she told me was that I could never see him again and she ws going to get a coustody order and protective order against me. and that he wouldn't be able to see our son anymore. and I know for a fact the my bf wants to see both of us because when we used to argue before he always came back and he is a good father. Can she do that?
I've spoken to police and other people and have have told me no she can't and the other half told me that it was a catch 22 and that if he came back to live here she could call him as a run away. Shouldn't she have done that a year and a half ago?
What can I do, I want to be with him and I want to be a family. and I know he wants to be with us. What can I do?
Can someone please help I don't want my family to be seperated I was so happy. and this is breaking my heart. :'(
I am a teenage parent 16 and my boyfriend is 16...He is the father of our son, he signed hte birth certificate and everything.
Well he has been living with me since I got pregant. and it's been about a good year and a half since he's been living with me and our son. Well some relly bad mess happened and now he is in Juvie. I have no idea when he will get out or what will happened I've tried to contact his mom but the only thing she told me was that I could never see him again and she ws going to get a coustody order and protective order against me. and that he wouldn't be able to see our son anymore. and I know for a fact the my bf wants to see both of us because when we used to argue before he always came back and he is a good father. Can she do that?
I've spoken to police and other people and have have told me no she can't and the other half told me that it was a catch 22 and that if he came back to live here she could call him as a run away. Shouldn't she have done that a year and a half ago?
What can I do, I want to be with him and I want to be a family. and I know he wants to be with us. What can I do?
Can someone please help I don't want my family to be seperated I was so happy. and this is breaking my heart. :'(
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Hi there, unless your boyfriend declares himself emancipated from his mother (either by marrying you or getting legal rights as such) then he technically has no rights. Until he turns 18, he will not be a legal adult and that's why. Can you tell me where you live? It might have an impact on the situation.
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since he is only 16 he really doesnt have any rights as far as where he will be living at etc.. his parents do. as far as him not being able to see the child no he has all rights to see his child.
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The original writer calls this "a sticky situation". Those of us who have enough life experience call this situation a "train wreck", meaning we expect this to be a disaster.
I hope teen-dad and teen-mom turn out to be a great married couple and pair of parents, but that's not how a situation like this usually works out. Teen-dad fathered a child at 14 or 15. (bad sign) He moved in with his pregnant girlfriend, I assume at her parent's home. (good) He did something that caused the authorities to see fit to throw him into "Juvie" (AKA - jail for someone too young to be sent to adult jail). (Now he's doubled down on bad.) So, how long is he in for? And does the minor teen mother of an incarcerated minor teen's child have any visitation rights? If he's in long enough, his mother's not allowing him to see teen-mom problem goes away. I'm surprised none of the 3 earlier writers mentioned this factor, and the way it was described leads me to think he will be in there plenty long enough. As I said before, I hope this works out well, but the stats on situations like this are terrible.
I hope teen-dad and teen-mom turn out to be a great married couple and pair of parents, but that's not how a situation like this usually works out. Teen-dad fathered a child at 14 or 15. (bad sign) He moved in with his pregnant girlfriend, I assume at her parent's home. (good) He did something that caused the authorities to see fit to throw him into "Juvie" (AKA - jail for someone too young to be sent to adult jail). (Now he's doubled down on bad.) So, how long is he in for? And does the minor teen mother of an incarcerated minor teen's child have any visitation rights? If he's in long enough, his mother's not allowing him to see teen-mom problem goes away. I'm surprised none of the 3 earlier writers mentioned this factor, and the way it was described leads me to think he will be in there plenty long enough. As I said before, I hope this works out well, but the stats on situations like this are terrible.
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