I am a 19 virgin and ready to have sex. My bf having a very thick penis, it is about 2.3" wide but only 8" long. I read from web that one of the reasons hurt when have sex for the first time is their bf penis too big. All my friends told me that this size is too big for a virgin, normal size penis also consider too big for a virgin since they are not use to have something of this size inside them. With this size I am going to hurt bad no matter what I done before hand. Is it true?
My bf also having a lot of sex experience, hence I do not like to tell him that I am a virgin. I am worry he will know if I bleed. Any way to make me not going to bleed the first time sex?
My bf also having a lot of sex experience, hence I do not like to tell him that I am a virgin. I am worry he will know if I bleed. Any way to make me not going to bleed the first time sex?
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This penis size is probably going to hurt you a bit, and yes you will likely bleed. Even a modest size mans penis when fully erect is big enough to be hard to handle for the first few times. It helps if you can stretch your hymen with your fingers in private a week or so before you let your boyfriend have sex with you, if you still have your hymen. When I lost my virginity, the guy could only get half his penis inside me that time, and it felt so thick I thought he'd split my vagina open. The head of a mans penis penis is quite a big thing and some are worse than others, its a real hurdle to even get started. It really really HURT the first time, I had to ask him to stop, even though he was really gentle and only put the head and a bit of the shaft in me. I hobbled around with my legs apart like a saddle sore cowgirl for the next three days! Also long penises can bang up too deep inside you and this really hurts too, it pokes your cervix and thats uncomfortable. Avoid doggie style and you can control the depth if you ride him on top. anything of 6 inches or more can hurt the average woman by being too long. 8 inches almost certainly will. IF you are asian like me then you will probably be a bit tighter and shallower, so be extra careful, especially if your boyfriend is white or african. But it does get better, just accept its going to hurt like hell the first few times, and use lots of water-based sex lubricant and ask him to go REAL easy. WIth practice it feels GREAT and you will appreciate big penises more with time!
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This penis size is going to hurt you, and yes you will likely bleed. Even a modest size mans penis when fully erect is big enough to be hard to handle for the first few times. It helps if you can stretch your hymen with your fingers in private a week or so before you let your boyfriend have sex with you, if you still have your hymen. When I lost my virginity, the guy could only get half his penis inside me that time, and it felt so thick I thought he'd split my vagina open. The head of a mans penis penis is quite a big thing and some are worse than others, its a real hurdle to even get started. It really really HURT the first time, I had to ask him to stop, even though he was really gentle and only put the head and a bit of the shaft in me. I hobbled around with my legs apart like a saddle sore cowgirl for the next three days! Also long penises can bang up too deep inside you and this really hurts too, it pokes your cervix and thats uncomfortable. Avoid doggie style and you can control the depth if you ride him on top. anything of 6 inches or more can hurt the average woman by being too long. 8 inches almost certainly will. IF you are asian like me then you will probably be a bit tighter and shallower, so be extra careful, especially if your boyfriend is white or african. But it does get better, just accept its going to hurt like hell the first few times, and use lots of water-based sex lubricant and ask him to go REAL easy. WIth practice it feels GREAT and you will appreciate big penises more with time!
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Hi, i am 18 yrs old and with my first serious boyfriend he was a little smaller than that but it did hurt. let me give u advice that i have learned before i have sex...If u have oral first and let him finger u and then slip a second finger in it loosens you up inside and makes it much more comfortable...when i have sex it still hurts during entry and then afterwards it is just fine..Try that before hand and it won't be as bad..after you finally have sex and u do foreplay before hand to ease u up it is soooo much better..for me at least :-) hope that helps
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i need a few tips.... my penis is 9 inches long and 7 inches around (about 3 inches wide) and my girlfriend is a virgin.... the first time we fooled around she got scared and now will barely kiss me.... what should i do?
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RELAX!
That is the key part of sex, take it slow and relax!
When I lost my virginity I was 14, no experienced, an he was quite big.
I talked to my counselor about it (she's not normal counselor, she is counselor for troubled teenagers who are into drugs or have hard life, I do not do drugs btw)
and told her I felt I was getting to the point we could have a problem and maybe sex...
We did not use lube, but I was thoroughly excited and my vagina was very moist due to a lot of foreplay. Just have fun with it and don't stress! If you stresss your muscles will tighten up and it will rip, tear, bruise, or generally hurt the vagina. It's a good idea to practice with fingers for several weeks before you take the big step!
8 inches is about the biggest I can handle without being uncomfortable, if you or your boyfriend have an unusually large penis which is thick and longer then 7 or 8 inches, please learn howto manage it. You can not put all of it in there, please take it slow and be responsible and learn how much she can take, a lot of women are shallow and if it touches the cervix it could cause a LOT of uncomfortable, I know!
If you are a woman who does not produce enough natural lubrication, then please use some, it will assist. I have never had this issue, thankfully.
That is the key part of sex, take it slow and relax!
When I lost my virginity I was 14, no experienced, an he was quite big.
I talked to my counselor about it (she's not normal counselor, she is counselor for troubled teenagers who are into drugs or have hard life, I do not do drugs btw)
and told her I felt I was getting to the point we could have a problem and maybe sex...
We did not use lube, but I was thoroughly excited and my vagina was very moist due to a lot of foreplay. Just have fun with it and don't stress! If you stresss your muscles will tighten up and it will rip, tear, bruise, or generally hurt the vagina. It's a good idea to practice with fingers for several weeks before you take the big step!
8 inches is about the biggest I can handle without being uncomfortable, if you or your boyfriend have an unusually large penis which is thick and longer then 7 or 8 inches, please learn howto manage it. You can not put all of it in there, please take it slow and be responsible and learn how much she can take, a lot of women are shallow and if it touches the cervix it could cause a LOT of uncomfortable, I know!
If you are a woman who does not produce enough natural lubrication, then please use some, it will assist. I have never had this issue, thankfully.
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Finally I lost my virginity to my current bf with a normal size penis but still hurt me a lot until I almost cannot handle it, luckily I lost it to my ex with a huge and thick penis, I can't imagine how bad he will hurt me if I lost it to him.
2 days ago I met my ex-bf in a party and we had sex , I thought it should be no problem for me since I have a lot of experience even he is huge but he hurt me really bad, it is worse that when my bf tear my hymen. I felt that my vagina stretch to its limit and then torn, I scream and cry in pain when he enter me. I also bleed a lot.
1)Where the blood come from since I have no hymen already?
2) Can it be the remaining of hymen stretch and torn further?
3) He tear my vagina wall?
4) He damaged something inside me?
Please help.
2 days ago I met my ex-bf in a party and we had sex , I thought it should be no problem for me since I have a lot of experience even he is huge but he hurt me really bad, it is worse that when my bf tear my hymen. I felt that my vagina stretch to its limit and then torn, I scream and cry in pain when he enter me. I also bleed a lot.
1)Where the blood come from since I have no hymen already?
2) Can it be the remaining of hymen stretch and torn further?
3) He tear my vagina wall?
4) He damaged something inside me?
Please help.
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There was a 12in penis and im a virgin think about it i Cried so much not even funny i even spoke a different language like i didnt know i can speak spanish omg i cried and yes bleed alot but yeah felt goo ;-)
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Dude simmer the hell down. If you cant use polite language, you don't need to be on this forum.
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excuse me....ONLY 8 inches?....since when was it ONLY 8 inches?.....the average mans penis is like 5 and a half six if lucky, mine is between 6 and a half and 7 so I was feelin pretty good till i saw this...just kidding im not mad but in all seriousness there is no guarantee that you will hurt or bleed, if it is 8 inches long that is quite large compared to average so I would say it is likely that it will be a little painful and you may bleed a little...but some girls dont bleed or hurt at all when they lose their virginity everybody is different....as long as youre ready and youve taken necessary precautions, birth control and making sure youre both clean, condoms etc. then go for it, and you should have no problem telling him youre a virgin if youre going to ahve sex with him...you have to be open about these kind of things...if he is upset about you being a virgin then youre with the wrong dude....Having sex with a virgin should be flattering to him and he should ahve no problems...if youre afraid to communicate something like that to him then youre not ready for sex, I dont wanna sound rude or anything just tryin to give the best advice cuz Id hate to see you come back here and post about something bad happening!
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just make sure you lossen up and relax before he "puts it in", fingers, oral, some kind of foreplay, if you just go for it then it might be more uncomfortable than it should be...sex is not something where you "cut to the chase"
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Hi, first time i did it was 2 years ago i was 17, with my bf,he was cut and he was 25 cm long and 6 cm wide,he had a larger head about 7 cm wide it did hurt till the head got in but it got nicer later, i did blead and cry and he liked that, we still see each other and now i can take most of it in, about 22 cm, so you should be ok, just get yourself wet and him also, also try to enjoy it, i had since then few other bf's one was wider but about 21 cm long that was ok after a while and he was uncut , also i am 169 cm tall and only 55 kg, so you should be ok, just dont try anal yet, that did hurt like hell, 6 months ago i did and i thought he did split me in half %-)
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The first time that I had sex I was 13. My boyfriend was 16, and he was pretty big. But I had not seen very many boys, just boys my age and they were not as big. I really wanted to have sex with him, and told him I was ready. He said that we had to take it slow because I was so small. He got lube and condoms and everything. we always did a lot of kissing and rubbing and stuff. He had fingered me a lot before when we messed around. So we did all of the stuff we usually did. He asked me if I still wanted to and I said yes. He rubbed lube on me and made sure I was really slippery. Then he put a condom on before he tried to put it in me. He kept kissing me and rubbing me down there and my boobs. He put it against me down there and asked again if I was ready, I said yes. I was still really so scared you would not believe it. and when he frist put the top of it in it really hurt. It made tears in my eyes. He asked me if I watned to quit and I said 'No" He was really slow, and I think I felt it when he tore me. my hymen thing. He was so gentle, but it still hurt a lot. He said I needed to relax more. I was too nervous. I did not cum, but I thnk he did. I bled a lot and he was really worried. Also cuz I said I was sore for a while down there. It took a few times for it not to hurt. We used a condom everytime, and he used lube stuff a lot when we had sex.
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I suggest if you are worried about his size, try masturbation before you have sex, use what you can get (dildos or safe objects) and work on loosening yourself up, you could even use your fingers. start with one, then move onto two, then when you are loose enough try three and so on.
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