Im fipilina,27 yrs old,virgin,my american bf and me wants tomake love but i scared coz he's big

Well sorry to say but for every girl it hurts and his........rod........is a bit off the normal side but that's ok and possibly bleeding but remember almost every girl goes through it so DONT feel alone in being scared just relax and trust (And if you do do IT then remember to breath!) Sorry if this doesn't help :(

My American boyfriend is divorced 26 years ago so I think he will not get hurt because he have lots of experience..we been trying to put his penis head but its hurt even the middle finger i felt pain as well but his middle finger been once inside me.....I am really scared and feel nervous because it is too much big for me for a vigin...Please I need your comments guys..what position should we use for the first time making love to make avoid not feel pain so much...

8 inches is slightly larger than normal but not abnormal. Mine measures up at over 7 and is normal thickness if your boyfriend is the same there should not be a problem once you do it. I would suggest a sideways approach my wife always found that relaxing . Lie on your side and guide his penis to your well lubricated hole. It needs to be really wet get him to just push the head in once in wait a moment and then let him travel up and in. It's not important if he comes in you just experience the sensation of him being fully inside you.Let him take it out and finish him with a hand/blow job. You will soon look forward to feeling his load inside you.
Good luck and let us know how you get on