I can't cum normally

hey there ginja,

i would try adding more pressure. use a tigher grip possibly with lube

also what angle does your penis make when erect does it point upward, n shape downward or stick straight out?
that can also have an affect on which way feels better ;-)

What do you mean by more pressure? I'm gripping my penis pretty hard.

My penis bends upwards when erect. That's why the lying position works so well; it's sandwiched between my hands and my chest.

I don't really feel comfortable getting lube. I was trying shampoo or conditioner as a substitute, would these work?

Whopps, sorry. That was me, forgot to login.

OK so i was thinking more grip/tighter grip may simmulate the weight of you laying on your self. also some people feel better when the bend their penis downward when the stroke as it puts pressure on the suspensory ligament. however, if you like sandwiching your penis between your stomach and hand then perhaps stroking up and down while bending/holding your penis as close to your stomach as possible may feel better. its all about what feels better to you (experiment) becarefull with using shampoo or conditioner as lube as if they get into the urinary meatus (pee hole) it can really burn like when you get soap in your eye. salive(spit) can work well or oil like cooking oil although that can get messy and stain clothes/ furnature so be carefull. finally are you circumsized? alot of uncircumsized people dont need lube as their foreskins replace it especially if you try it in the shower.

hope this helps and isnt too confusing ;-)

Hi Ginja ninja:

There is nothing wrong with prone masturbation despite all of the rumors.

The foreskin is filled with nerves that are stimulated by motion. Just keep sliding your foreskin back and forth and after a bit you will start to feel very wonderful sensations. You probably do not need lubrication. That is for the poor circumcised guys.

Masturbation is relaxing, pleasant, enjoyable, harmless, healthy, normal, and contributes to restful sleep if done before bedtime. Masturbation relieves pain from overfilled seminal vesicles. Frequent masturbation prevents wet dreams. Regular ejaculation is associated with better prostate health. Masturbation is a great stress reliever.

One may masturbate as much or as little as one wishes. One may do it in any place where one has privacy. There is no upper or lower age limit for masturbation.

The internally lubricated movable nerve-laden foreskin and its gliding action is an important aid to masturbation.

Circumcision was introduced to unforeskin the penis and make it impossible to masturbate. It did not stop masturbation but it made it harder to do and perhaps less enjoyable.

How one does it depends on whether one has an internally lubricated movable foreskin that glides up and down the shaft or whether you have been unforeskinned.

If you are foreskinned, then all you need to do is glide your foreskin back and forth. The foreskin is internally lubricated with lymphatic fluid and glides without friction. The numerous nerves inside the foreskin are stimulated by the motion and generate pleasurable sensations.

Long and vigorous masturbation can cause the foreskin to become edematous and swollen, which is painless and not a cause for alarm. The edema usually goes down within about 24 hours. Pulling back too hard is apt to stretch the frenulum and may tear it.

If you are unforeskinned and the skin is taut and immovable, then you will need some lubrication and you need to slide your hand up and down the shaft. You will likely injure yourself without lubricant. Friction burns are common when a male without foreskin masturbates without lubricant. Some lubricants are baby oil, vegetable oil, personal lubricant, soapy water, and saliva.

It is common for an unforeskinned male, who has been deprived of his internally lubricated foreskin, to have friction burns if he does not apply external lubricant.

There are many myths about masturbation, which simply are not true.

Masturbation does NOT cause insanity.
Masturbation does NOT cause memory loss.
Masturbation does NOT cause you to go blind.
Masturbation does NOT cause eye problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause blurred vision.
Masturbation does NOT cause sleeplessness.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair to grow in your palms.
Masturbation does NOT change hair color.
Masturbation does NOT cause baldness.
Masturbation does NOT cause erectile dysfunction (ED).
Masturbation does NOT cause impotence.
Masturbation does NOT prevent fathering children.
Masturbation does NOT slow down puberty.
Masturbation does NOT stunt your growth.
Masturbation does NOT suck out the nutrients.
Masturbation does NOT lower your testosterone.
Masturbation does NOT raise your testostorone.
Masturbation does NOT cause gynecomastia.
Masturbation does NOT cause pain in the testes.
Masturbation does NOT cause premature ejaculation.
Masturbation does NOT affect height.
Masturbation does NOT cause penile curvature.
Masturbation does NOT affect penis size.
Masturbation does NOT decrease stamina.
Masturbation does NOT cause knee problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause muscle weakness.
Masturbation does NOT reduce muscle mass.
Masturbation does NOT cause hernia.
Masturbation does NOT cause weight gain.
Masturbation does NOT cause pimples.
Masturbation does NOT cause acne.
Masturbation does NOT cause loss of blood.
Masturbation does NOT cause blood to flow from the urethra.
Masturbation does NOT cause your body to smell like a fish.
Masturbation does NOT make your bones softer.
Masturbation does NOT slow the growth of your penis.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis weak.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis larger.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis smaller.
Masturbation does NOT make your penis wrinkly.
Masturbation does NOT release hormones.
Masturbation does NOT make you sexually weak.
Masturbation does NOT cause nerve problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause memory problems.
Masturbation does NOT cause cancer.
Masturbation does NOT cause back pain.
Masturbation does NOT cause stomachache.
Masturbation does NOT cause body aches.
Masturbation does NOT cause headache.
Masturbation does NOT make you thin and skinny.
Masturbation does NOT harm the kidneys.
Masturbation does NOT cause prostate cancer.
Masturbation does NOT cause psoriasis.
Masturbation does NOT cause hair fall.
Masturbation does NOT cause death.
Masturbation does NOT cause infection.

Don't grip hard, and shampoo would not work.