Ok Im 18 years old and me and my boyfriend have been togather for a year or so now, Ive been starting to have this huge problems with having sex, Its like i have no feeling in my vagina i can not enjoy oral sex because most of the time i cant feel it, or it just hurts. When we have intercorse i normally get extrem buring inside and out of my vagina plus I cant really feel anything. Condoms & all types of lubes make it 10 times worse and it will go completly numb. so Sence i normaly cant feel anything or it burns really bad I cant enjoy sex anymore I dont understand whats wrong with me. Ive never Orgasemd during sex or with oral sence i have no feeling. i dont know what to do and need help
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Hi there, if you get a burning feeling have you used lubricant? I am trying to figure out what is causing the issue. Do you have any other symptoms at all?
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Sounds to me like you're one of the majority of girls who do not have vaginal climax but the problems with the burning could be more serious. If your boyfriend has a larger than average sized penis then he should avoid (hate to use the expression but) "using the whole thing." The most sesnitive area of the vagina is within the first 1.5 to 2 inches. That's where the most nerve endings are.
If that doesn't work, try stimulating the clitorus. For many girls, that;s the only way they can enjoy sex.
A possibility might be to relax or even try "kegel exercises" (Google it)
Last but not least, discuss the issue with your gyno. There is a slight possibility it could be something serious.
-b
If that doesn't work, try stimulating the clitorus. For many girls, that;s the only way they can enjoy sex.
A possibility might be to relax or even try "kegel exercises" (Google it)
Last but not least, discuss the issue with your gyno. There is a slight possibility it could be something serious.
-b
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I would have to say you might be an asexaul. Now don't freak out its okay. My suggestion is to look it up and do some research on it. Some people might say no there no such thing or try to tell you sex is important but don't let them if you are. I'm personly not one but my love of my life is, and that's one of the many things I love about her and she described the almost the same thing to me btw we have very great communication so we looked it up and discovered that she was an asexual. Hope this helps you if not at least enlightens you to a new level of communication with your bf and there's always toys and stuff to try.
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