im 18 and after much thought and consideration i have decided to ask for help and advice.
when i was 14, i fell for a fellow classmate, it soon turned into a serious relationship and we started enagaging in sexual activity soon after. from the first time he perform oral sex on me, i felt nothing inside my vagina and from the first time we had sex at 16, i also felt nothing. neither pain or pleasure. As my boyfriend and i were both virgin, we didnt no abnormal from normal, and i never worked up enough courage to tell him, so i pretended that it always felt great. no doubt, i knew something was wrong with me but i feared telling my friends or even my parents.
Now at 18 i met a beautiful guy, and were both crazy about each other. i love him, but i cant bring myself to tell him that something is wrong with me. it would change alot if i did, beacuse we have sex so frequently and i also pretend that its good even though i cant feel it. i know the appearance of my vagina looks no diffent from other females, as im sure he would have pointed it out.
im not sure what to do. i cant tell my parents, beacuse they will hit the roof and might end up disowning me as a daughter if they knew i was having sex.
i have no idea whats wrong with me, i feel nothing in my vagina, well sometimes on rare occasions i feel pain if my b/f thrusts too deep but other than that, i feel nothing. i still have my monthly periods and everything, i just cant feel pleasure unless i have clitorus stimulation. i crave so badly to make love to my boyfriend and be able to enjoy it. my greatest fear is not being able to have kids.
i know i need to see a doctor, i just need to work up the courage.
when i was 14, i fell for a fellow classmate, it soon turned into a serious relationship and we started enagaging in sexual activity soon after. from the first time he perform oral sex on me, i felt nothing inside my vagina and from the first time we had sex at 16, i also felt nothing. neither pain or pleasure. As my boyfriend and i were both virgin, we didnt no abnormal from normal, and i never worked up enough courage to tell him, so i pretended that it always felt great. no doubt, i knew something was wrong with me but i feared telling my friends or even my parents.
Now at 18 i met a beautiful guy, and were both crazy about each other. i love him, but i cant bring myself to tell him that something is wrong with me. it would change alot if i did, beacuse we have sex so frequently and i also pretend that its good even though i cant feel it. i know the appearance of my vagina looks no diffent from other females, as im sure he would have pointed it out.
im not sure what to do. i cant tell my parents, beacuse they will hit the roof and might end up disowning me as a daughter if they knew i was having sex.
i have no idea whats wrong with me, i feel nothing in my vagina, well sometimes on rare occasions i feel pain if my b/f thrusts too deep but other than that, i feel nothing. i still have my monthly periods and everything, i just cant feel pleasure unless i have clitorus stimulation. i crave so badly to make love to my boyfriend and be able to enjoy it. my greatest fear is not being able to have kids.
i know i need to see a doctor, i just need to work up the courage.
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Hey, did you ever find out what this could be? My girlfriend told me she did not have feeling inside and also that she could not feel her breasts if held? Does anyone know this, I have promised to try find an explanation or try help and I've looked everywhere and only found this one related topic.
She has explained it as she does not feel stimulation but will climax and feels the climax as contractions and a whole body feeling. So basically she just feels the entry during intercourse and the orgasm at the end but that the rest of it is nothing.
I'm really not sure how to help her and I'm trying to find any answers so please reply soon.
She has explained it as she does not feel stimulation but will climax and feels the climax as contractions and a whole body feeling. So basically she just feels the entry during intercourse and the orgasm at the end but that the rest of it is nothing.
I'm really not sure how to help her and I'm trying to find any answers so please reply soon.
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