Me and my boyfriend had sexual intercourse on March 7th. We are both really young. We are scared and think I may be pregnant. We don't really have a way to get a pregnancy test either. I have one but we want to use it when the right time is so we know or not. We don't want to waste the one that we have and be stuck with no way to get one. Neither one of us can drive or have jobs. We are really scared and don't know what to do. We are both teenagers and are scared out of our minds. If you can give us advice on how long to wait to take a pregnancy test or know what we could do or anything that would help and let us know what could/would happen if I am pregnant. Thanks. %-)
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First thing you need to do is calm down, freaking out is not going to help you at all.
You say you had unprotected sex on the 7th of March, okay...that was 9 days ago. Do you remember when you had your last period?
Figure out when, then we will be able to narrow it down a bit tighter.
Also, you ask the question, what would/could happen if you are pregnant.
Well.......you have a baby. (or not)
We will cross that bridge when we get there.
For now, don't use the only HPT that you have available, wait. Go back on the calander and try to remember when you had you last period. We will try and figure out when you ovulated. Try to be as accurate as you can because timing is important to determine if your pregnant or not.
Get back to us for more help/
You say you had unprotected sex on the 7th of March, okay...that was 9 days ago. Do you remember when you had your last period?
Figure out when, then we will be able to narrow it down a bit tighter.
Also, you ask the question, what would/could happen if you are pregnant.
Well.......you have a baby. (or not)
We will cross that bridge when we get there.
For now, don't use the only HPT that you have available, wait. Go back on the calander and try to remember when you had you last period. We will try and figure out when you ovulated. Try to be as accurate as you can because timing is important to determine if your pregnant or not.
Get back to us for more help/
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hi. my last period ended on the 23rd of February. I still haven't gotten it and it's been 15 days since March 7th and it was 12 days after my last period when we did it. Im really anxious to know if I am or not I can't wait any longer.
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Okay, i think you should take the HPT. It sounds to me like you had intercourse right around the time you were just starting to ovulate.
That's probably not the answer you wanted, but go ahead and take it, then go one step at a time. We are here if you need us.
That's probably not the answer you wanted, but go ahead and take it, then go one step at a time. We are here if you need us.
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If I used it and it said negative, should I take another one? I don't want to waste the one I have and not be able to get another one.
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ok. if it says negative then should I take another one? I don't want to use the one we have and have it be to early and not be able to get another one. I honestly know nothing about this stuff and what all happens and stuff im only 15 :-(
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The sooner you find out the better. I am sure between you and bf you can come up with some cash to get another one.
Are you familiar with Planned Parenthood? They will work with you as far as payment goes. I know you say you have no money, but when i was your age i made a little money on the side. Does mom/dad give you some kind of allowance? What about bf? Does he have a part time job after school? If he does some odd jpbs around his house for his parents or maybe mows a couple lawns, you guys can start to come up with some money so you can go to planned parenthood.
Are you familiar with Planned Parenthood? They will work with you as far as payment goes. I know you say you have no money, but when i was your age i made a little money on the side. Does mom/dad give you some kind of allowance? What about bf? Does he have a part time job after school? If he does some odd jpbs around his house for his parents or maybe mows a couple lawns, you guys can start to come up with some money so you can go to planned parenthood.
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Okay. Ive heard of it. Yes I get $20 a week but I'm sure when my parent finds out I'll be kicked out. He doesn't have a job but he is supposed to be getting one.The main problem with that is that we don't have a way to get places because neither one of us can drive and our parents don't know yet we wanted to wait until we found out to tell them. I'm just so scared and I'm afraid to take the test. I still haven't gotten my period but i had small cramps off and on today and they were different from my period.
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Is this a "Guest" or Cheerbabe? Either way, your making excuses. This is a problem and you really should address it ASAP. $20 bucks will get you another HPT, $20 bucks will get you transportation a few times on the bus.
Sitting back and wondering is not going to get the job done.
I really don't think your parents will kick you out, your a just a child yourself.
Take the test that you have. Do it first thing in the morning when you take your very first pee of the day as you need a clean catch.
Then, what ever the results may be, you go to the next step.
If your not pregnant, take that 20 bucks and see a doctor from Planned Parenthood, if that is all you have they will work with you.
Bf needs condoms, which are free at PP and you need to look into some birth control.
I hear you loud and clear when you say that you are scared. I was petrified to tell my folks. But being scared is not going to make you "un pregnant" if you are.
So, bite the bullet, so to speak, take the test and start from there.
Sitting back and wondering is not going to get the job done.
I really don't think your parents will kick you out, your a just a child yourself.
Take the test that you have. Do it first thing in the morning when you take your very first pee of the day as you need a clean catch.
Then, what ever the results may be, you go to the next step.
If your not pregnant, take that 20 bucks and see a doctor from Planned Parenthood, if that is all you have they will work with you.
Bf needs condoms, which are free at PP and you need to look into some birth control.
I hear you loud and clear when you say that you are scared. I was petrified to tell my folks. But being scared is not going to make you "un pregnant" if you are.
So, bite the bullet, so to speak, take the test and start from there.
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