So I have a new one....I went off of the pill (from years of being on it..I mean YEARS) in October.. Had a regular period Nov. 21st, then a heavy period Dec. 14th.  Starting in early January, my husband and I started trying for a little one....I got my period Jan. 25th but in February...the period fairy completely skipped over me.  It's March 5th and I still haven't gotten a period.  No spotting or anything.  For the last few days I have had a high fever, swollen breasts and mild, very mild cramping.  Is my body just trying to stabalize itself from being off the pill?  I have taken 3 tests since late Jan. and all have been negative.  It's getting very spendy!  Any advice would be so very helpful!