I have torn frenulum

c**p o having it too.. So painful? Any fast cures?

I would just wait until it's not too painful for you to have sex again. That would depend on how turned on you are, I guess. What's going to happen if you do? It could just tear a little more and that wouldn't be such a bad thing would it? Eventually it will get torn enough so it stops tearing and your foreskin will roll all the way back like it's supposed to.

For God's sake, and your's, and your lover's, don't get your foreskin cut off. It has sooo many pleasure sensitive nerve endings in the inner side, you don't want to lose those o.O When you can roll your foreskin all the way back comfortably, (without the frenulum holding it back) you are going to find immeasureable pleasurable sensations you can create from the inner side of it. It si a delight to get all the way inside your lover and have it stretch as you push a little bit more. Without a foreskin you can never know that feeling. It's also wonderful for masturbation.

You can probably use cortisone cream to aid the healing. They didn't have that when I tore mine but it healed in a few days anyway. I DID put toilet paper on it to keep the ends from healing back together when the foreskin was rolled back in place over the head. that way it wasn't as short/tight after it healed.

Here's my story:

My frenulum wasn't a problem until I got married and began having sex every day. It tore and then the ends healed back together so it was still too short. The next time it tore I wrapped it to keep the ends from healing back together and it was a little longer. It tore a few more times but eventually it was long enough to allow my foreskin to retract all the way back. At that point the tip was able to roll all the way down the shaft nearly to my abdomen. It is truly a joy to have a foreskin that rolls all the way back there easily and comfortably, so what little pain was involved was definitely worth it. Mine tore naturally during sex but you can have a doctor cut it after numbing it if that's the problem. Just make sure he cuts it so it will no longer interfere with your foreskin retracting all the way. I have read about guys who had that done and it was still too short. I can't see having to go back and do it again. Make sure they get it RIGHT the first time.

I tore my frenulum not long also but it was never too short, I never had a problem with it. Frenulum tearing isn't an issue that ONLY men with short frenulums suffer from. Even if your frenulum is of perfect lenght, you can still tear it by inadequate lubrication when having intercourse or doing foreplay... that's what happened to me and I learned my lesson; ALWAYS LUBRICATE PROPERLY (wether by natural or artificial means) and if your partner's vagina isn't wet enough, don't force yourself in too early, you might regret it...

Well i tore my frenulum a while ago and of cours efreaked out and didnt what to do so i left it alone hoping it wold heal but it healed to itself and is now tight and too short.  It has ripped again and i was wondering what i needed to do?

Did you even read the other posts above? The last paragraph in my post (two up) addresses that.

Always make sure everywheres lubed !!