I am almost 21 years old, I will explain what I feel and everything and maybe someone can help me. I had been pregnant in 2006, I had been in a very abusive relationship he would beat me and force me to have sex with him, from June 06 to August 8th 06 I had had 3 miscarriages. One right after the other basically, then I had gotten pregnant a 4th time and though that it happened about september since I couldn't get a positive preg test until October 25th and the 24th I took a home test and it came back negitive. I followed the intructions perfectly and the tests kept comming up negitive until someone else did them. I ended up finding out that my body and the baby were 23 days behind what the pregnancy was actually, so I aborted the baby. I know I will get a lot of critizisim for this I don't care what anyone has to say on it I couldn't see as a mother letting my child suffer more than she already had. Plus there is a lot more that is not told in this. I don't remember having implantation bleeding, I didn't have morning sickness, I had cramping, I had breast tenderness, I didn't have a higher body temp, I had the constant urinating, I had the increased appitite, that was everything I had.
Here is the situation now. My fiancee and I have been together a year, we're getting married soon, he's in college, I'll be starting college in the summer. He just got out of the Marine Corps. I have been having two periods a month for the last two months. But this month I didn't have one on the 15th even though the entire week of and a few days before the 15th I had period like symptoms. Cramps, bloating, being emotional, craving chocolate, eating more, but what was weird is I had breast tenderness. Its not usual for me to have breast tenderness around my period. Well the 15th came and passed and no period not so much as even a spot of blood. We are nearing the other date of my second period, and I have cramps, I have bloating, I have everything as before except last night I had something that doesn't normally make me sick make me almost throw up at the taste and smell of it. I have taken 3 home tests one of which was this morning all three came back negitive. But I still have a few days before my missed period. My finacee urged the one for this morning after last night. The breast tenderness is so bad that it keeps me up at night and if you so much as lightly touch my breasts it hurts. My areolas are darker too. And I have noticed a bit darker hair on my stomach in what the call the *happy trail*. The cramps are not in the usual spot my period cramps are in it's up closer to my belly button. Can anyone give me any advice on if they think I may be pregnant or not? Cause if I have someone elses opinion to maybe go get a test done he might get the best birthday present in the world according to him and that is to be a daddy.
I thank anyone who answers this. I will be checking in periodically. Thank you again,
Gigi
Here is the situation now. My fiancee and I have been together a year, we're getting married soon, he's in college, I'll be starting college in the summer. He just got out of the Marine Corps. I have been having two periods a month for the last two months. But this month I didn't have one on the 15th even though the entire week of and a few days before the 15th I had period like symptoms. Cramps, bloating, being emotional, craving chocolate, eating more, but what was weird is I had breast tenderness. Its not usual for me to have breast tenderness around my period. Well the 15th came and passed and no period not so much as even a spot of blood. We are nearing the other date of my second period, and I have cramps, I have bloating, I have everything as before except last night I had something that doesn't normally make me sick make me almost throw up at the taste and smell of it. I have taken 3 home tests one of which was this morning all three came back negitive. But I still have a few days before my missed period. My finacee urged the one for this morning after last night. The breast tenderness is so bad that it keeps me up at night and if you so much as lightly touch my breasts it hurts. My areolas are darker too. And I have noticed a bit darker hair on my stomach in what the call the *happy trail*. The cramps are not in the usual spot my period cramps are in it's up closer to my belly button. Can anyone give me any advice on if they think I may be pregnant or not? Cause if I have someone elses opinion to maybe go get a test done he might get the best birthday present in the world according to him and that is to be a daddy.
I thank anyone who answers this. I will be checking in periodically. Thank you again,
Gigi
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when are you supposed to get your period? also the miscarriages you have had before-- do you know what caused them? or were they abortions? have you always had two periods a month?
there are a lot of things to consider here so its hard for me in particular to give you an answer. i think your best bet is to go to a doctor. if nothing else have them do a pregnancy test for you.
i will say that most at home pregnancy tests will say "get results up to five days sooner," but do understand that five days before a missed period, only about 57% of women will get a positive result, IF there IS a positive result to be seen-- understand? the percentage raises with every day and by the day of your missed period if you are still coming up with negatives but still feeling symptoms, definately go to your doctor.
dont jump to conclusions- i know ive done that so many times, and the one time i got pregnant was the one time when i didnt even expect it.
there are a lot of things to consider here so its hard for me in particular to give you an answer. i think your best bet is to go to a doctor. if nothing else have them do a pregnancy test for you.
i will say that most at home pregnancy tests will say "get results up to five days sooner," but do understand that five days before a missed period, only about 57% of women will get a positive result, IF there IS a positive result to be seen-- understand? the percentage raises with every day and by the day of your missed period if you are still coming up with negatives but still feeling symptoms, definately go to your doctor.
dont jump to conclusions- i know ive done that so many times, and the one time i got pregnant was the one time when i didnt even expect it.
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No I haven't always had two periods it's only been since November that I had two a month. The miscarriages I had were actual miscarriages. I only had one abortion. And I think a 23 day difference from according to what the doctor told me I should have been is a HUGE difference. Like I said there were other circumstances that hadn't been mentioned.
I am not sure when I was supposed to get my period like I have been getting it on the 15th and the 28th of each month. I didn't get one on the 15th, and these are like period symptoms but much worse. Like I said I had been pregnant before but I didn't experience a lot of the symptoms. I just started today getting sick to my stomach. I have been getting headaches, backaches, major breast tenderness (unlike my period I never get breast tenderness, also so bad that I can't sleep.), frequent urination, worse than usual stomach cramps, bloated (but worse than what is normal with my period), slight fever started today and has lasted all day, darkened areolas, no implantation bleeding but I only spot when I am having complications, I'm always hungry and constantly eating. I eat about 3 times more lately than I usually do. An I've been getting so hungry in such a short time that I will get stomach cramps when my stomach growls. If I don't eat I get shaky and dizzy which is what happened when I was pregnant before.
I hope that gives you a better idea of what I am experiencing. I am hoping this is helpful to you. And I appreciate your post really I do.
I am not sure when I was supposed to get my period like I have been getting it on the 15th and the 28th of each month. I didn't get one on the 15th, and these are like period symptoms but much worse. Like I said I had been pregnant before but I didn't experience a lot of the symptoms. I just started today getting sick to my stomach. I have been getting headaches, backaches, major breast tenderness (unlike my period I never get breast tenderness, also so bad that I can't sleep.), frequent urination, worse than usual stomach cramps, bloated (but worse than what is normal with my period), slight fever started today and has lasted all day, darkened areolas, no implantation bleeding but I only spot when I am having complications, I'm always hungry and constantly eating. I eat about 3 times more lately than I usually do. An I've been getting so hungry in such a short time that I will get stomach cramps when my stomach growls. If I don't eat I get shaky and dizzy which is what happened when I was pregnant before.
I hope that gives you a better idea of what I am experiencing. I am hoping this is helpful to you. And I appreciate your post really I do.
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According to my period calendar, I ovulated February 9, 2017, I had sex 4 days later. On February 23, I started my period, it ended 5 days later on the 28. On March 8, I went to the bathroom when I got home from school and there was a brown spot in my underwear about the size of a quarter. I immediately knew something was odd. In all the years I have had periods, I have never had any spotting in the middle of the month. My period is supposed to start March 27, today is March 10, yesterday I had a few brown spots in my underwear, and I have about the same amount today so far. I tested this morning and I got a negative result, which I had assumed I would get. I figure I will get a positive result in a few weeks when my period comes along. I don't know what to do.
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