i need to know what to do, should i mess with him or wait

hes 16 almost 17 an ima virgin but he isnt

I don't think it's a good idea. Sex for males and females are different. There might be some emotional damage afterwards. Hold off, a little while longer. Just because you may be physically ready, you might not be emotionally ready. Think it through before you jump.

you dont understand... ok well his sister was my bestfriend an i thought i could trust her an we dated an then she screwed my brother while i was sleep. she only knew him for like 2 months... its not that i wanna get her back i just want her to no how i feel. but i really do like this guy an he so cute an funny, an the only guy id consider having sex with. an theres gonna be this party this weekend that im going to and hes gonna be there... idk what to do