Ok, this is awful I am stressed and sick over thisn I need some calm thinking advice.
I was seperated form hubby for three months. In that time I was intimate with a friend on Aug. 5th, 6th 7th. I was also intimate with hubby on the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. Since all of this...hubby and I have re-united.I am preganant. The last day of my menstrual cycle was the 26th of July the first being about the 23rd. I need to figure out when I conceived I really do not want to risk my marriage, also should i just have the baby and take a risk that it may not be his??
I was seperated form hubby for three months. In that time I was intimate with a friend on Aug. 5th, 6th 7th. I was also intimate with hubby on the 2nd, 3rd and 4th. Since all of this...hubby and I have re-united.I am preganant. The last day of my menstrual cycle was the 26th of July the first being about the 23rd. I need to figure out when I conceived I really do not want to risk my marriage, also should i just have the baby and take a risk that it may not be his??
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Ok...if you started your period around the 23rd (this is critical to ovulation)
You would have started ovualting 14 days after the day your last period started, which would have been on the 5th. You are in a bad situation here because take away a day and it's hubbys, add a day and it's not. You have to be precise when your last period started. There are 4 to 5 "hot" days in there when you could conceive.
Think back real hard on when your last period started.
As far as the baby being your friends, this is your decision to do with it what you will. Is this your first baby? Does "friend" know that he may be a daddy? Does hubby know anything? As far as risking your marraige, how solid is it after your seperation? Did you separate because of this friend? I don't know. Weigh it out, baby^^^shakey marraige^^^ If you have this baby and it turns out it's not your husbands, your marraige will probably be over. Would this friend accept responsibility? Would hubby accept responsibility for someone else's baby?
What are your views on abortion? I am not for it or against it as it is the moms decision. You will not be a bad person if you decide to have one.
Should you decide to have this procedure, make sure you breath it to no one, as this could eventually come around and bite you. If the baby is not your husbands it could come back and bite you twice as hard.
You are the only one who can make peace with this whole thing. Do what you think is best. In the meantime, think really hard about that period start date, it will make a hugh difference.
You would have started ovualting 14 days after the day your last period started, which would have been on the 5th. You are in a bad situation here because take away a day and it's hubbys, add a day and it's not. You have to be precise when your last period started. There are 4 to 5 "hot" days in there when you could conceive.
Think back real hard on when your last period started.
As far as the baby being your friends, this is your decision to do with it what you will. Is this your first baby? Does "friend" know that he may be a daddy? Does hubby know anything? As far as risking your marraige, how solid is it after your seperation? Did you separate because of this friend? I don't know. Weigh it out, baby^^^shakey marraige^^^ If you have this baby and it turns out it's not your husbands, your marraige will probably be over. Would this friend accept responsibility? Would hubby accept responsibility for someone else's baby?
What are your views on abortion? I am not for it or against it as it is the moms decision. You will not be a bad person if you decide to have one.
Should you decide to have this procedure, make sure you breath it to no one, as this could eventually come around and bite you. If the baby is not your husbands it could come back and bite you twice as hard.
You are the only one who can make peace with this whole thing. Do what you think is best. In the meantime, think really hard about that period start date, it will make a hugh difference.
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It's been over a year, so you probably got a DNA test, or at least have some degree of certainty.
If you haven't, and you're still unsure, my best guess is that your friend is the father of your baby. Normally (but not always) ovulation is around 14 days from the first day of the menstrual cycle. Your husband's sperm would have been long dead by August 6th.
Anyway, I hope it works out for you, your baby and your husband, whether he knows or not.
If you haven't, and you're still unsure, my best guess is that your friend is the father of your baby. Normally (but not always) ovulation is around 14 days from the first day of the menstrual cycle. Your husband's sperm would have been long dead by August 6th.
Anyway, I hope it works out for you, your baby and your husband, whether he knows or not.
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