I think I've been masturbating and I feel guilty and afraid

dont worry!!!!!!! masterbating is completely natural!!!! i'm not sure what the bleeding is but maybe just be a little more gentil. masterbating is in the bible a "sin" but it feels good and is better than losing your virginity at 10!!!! just don't worry it's perfectly natural

Listen hon, masterbate all you want. Buy your self a toothbrush, ya know, the ones that vibrate. They are in the mouth care aisle in your grocery store. 5 bucks, tops. That monster massager you use now sounds much to big for you to handle. I can't get a handle on why your bleeding tho. You are not inserting anything inside, right? Is the bleeding from the inside or the outside?
You are not insane, you are not doing anything wrong. The bible may say that masterbating is a sin and if that's the case, majority of folks on this green earth will have a lot of confessions to make when they get to to those pearly gates.
Try the toothbruse, not the bristle side. Find the right spot and have fun.

But that's the thing, I really don't want to do it. I just wanna know why I'd be bleeding. :C

Then the answer is simple for you, don't do it then.
The bleeding may be from irritation on the outside of your vagina. If your bleeding internally, i don't know why if your not putting anything inside of yourself.
The best thing for you to do is to just stop it all together. It is obviously making you feel bad and now your worried about if you have hurt yourself in some way, which i doubt.

If you have decided that you like the way you feel when you masterbate, get rid of that monster foot massager and try something more your size.

Dear problemgirl
I wish to thank you for your posting, it shows other young people that it is not wrong and "your idea of other use" is a great idea.
We will name a new trophy after you!!!

Definition;
Masturbating is making yourself feel good in a sexual way, rubbing in your vagina area, & breasts, to an orgasm, release of fluids and tension the only wrong way is to be injuring yourself intentional or not knowing you have. (your case is just fine)
The guilty side is if you’re a religion person, and wish to "not stray away"; but you can see, no hair is growing on your hands, and nothing has been taking away from you. (know that I am going to hear more on this)

Your bleeding may be from a long list of things, stress, mid cycle, brown spotting before, or just that you triggered & worked some muscles that have not be used before, the only way to see a Doctor on something like this if the bleeding is a red, like you see from a cut, or there is pain, but if you wish to, a pre-school check up and to be placed on birth control, may be a good time & idea. the pills will regulate your periods more, and have less bleeding and pain being on them from your period.

You are staying true to a long distant boyfriend, (that is hard on anyone)
You may wish to buy a small viberator or a muscle massager for yourself that are easier to use and place away. you just used it for the vibration, not as an incursion toy, so please do not be so hard on yourself, feel pathetic is not needed, smile next time you think of using it and "people will wonder what you are up to"
the guilt will lessen as you get older.
RT
P.S. I will write more later to you

from another posting;
You need to be relaxing as you enjoy yourself to enjoy yourself.
Q) What about the wet stuff that comes out of my vagina? This is a normal occurrence being a female. You felt shakily and had a pleasant feeling in your body? , “that wet stuff” is that you experienced an “orgasm” -Congratulations -and it is the liquid that lubes your vagina & cleans it out, this is also found in the liner your panties –a yellowish-white liquid or dry substance during the week and if you have thought about your cute boy or see him

Here are some Rules for boys and girls on masturbating;
Relax yourself, have the time to start and finish your enjoyment,(masturbating) and have some items to clean up yourself afterwards, and change your clothes if needed.
be in a safe place, not outside in fields, trees, ext.
Try some lube, the ONLY lube for girls is water based lube. "KY" is name brand but at the cheap discount stores, they have "personal lube" in tubes in the shopping area with tampons.
Use as much as needed to help with the friction if you have not become "wet" on your own, & think of being held be your cute boyfriend this year.
Well this may be a good or great start, but keep working on it and change is the spice of masturbating!

RT

problemgirl
First I wish to thank you for your posting, it shows other young people that it is not wrong and "your idea of other item use" is a great idea.
We will name a new trophy after you for it!!! LOL ROTF MANOMS
(making a nuisance of my self)
Definition;
Masturbating is making yourself feel good in a sexual way, rubbing in your vagina area, & breasts, to an orgasm, release of fluids and tension the only wrong way is to be injuring yourself intentional or not knowing you have. (your case is just fine)
The guilty side is if you’re a religion person, and wish to "not stray away"; but you can see, no hair is growing on your hands, and nothing has been taking away from you. (know that I am going to hear more on this)

Your bleeding may be from a long list of things, stress, mid cycle, brown spotting before, or just that you triggered & worked some muscles that have not be used before, the only way to see a Doctor on something like this if the bleeding is a red, like you see from a cut, or there is pain, but if you wish to, a pre-school check up and to be placed on birth control, may be a good time & idea. the pills will regulate your periods more, and have less bleeding and pain being on them from your periods.

You are staying true to a long distant boyfriend, (that is hard on anyone)
You may wish to buy a small viberator or a muscle massager for yourself that are easier to use and place away. you just used it for the vibration, not as an incursion toy, so please do not be so hard on yourself, the guilt will less as you get older.
You need to be relaxing as you enjoy yourself to enjoy yourself more.
RT

Hey, calm down a bit. There is nothing wrong with masturbation. But using any kind of vibrator can keep you from enjoying the "REAL THING" when the time comes. This is because it may desensitize your parts, trust me, stay off the vibrators and use the fingers and hand. Just wash before and after. I mean that you wash your hands and vaginal area and rinse all soap off before doing this. Just enjoy that you are a woman and stay away from the vibrator and you will get way more pleasure from the real thing for sure. Masturbation is natural and healthy. Most all folks do it. just be careful. And take those undergarments off, if they stay wet for extended amounts of time and you do not change them, you could develop an infection. Mostly, relax, do not be so afraid and love yourself and have fun.
Stay a virgin till you get married is great. But that seldom happens these days. And for good reason too. How can you know that you will enjoy him after marriage. Would you buy a car if you never saw it or drove it? Well, that may not be great advise because of Christian Values and moral standards. Be safe girl.

The vibration maybe and the orgasm may have broken your cherry. I just dont know. just sayin

wow look hun shes doing everything right shes bleeding cuz shes rubbing it on her hymen and her hymen probably broke(thats not bad by the way its supposed to break)

Listen, if your a Christian, then don't do it, it is a sin. I understand what u r going through, I am a Christian. I know it is very hard at this point in your life, but u must stay true to your god, and values. I have gone through the same thing. Pray to HIM, he knows your struggles, he can help. So to recap, u should stop, it is a sin. I know it will be hard, but your god will help u. Remember, Jesus loves u. I will be praying for u. God bless!

It is wrong but no one is perfect, ask for strength to resist and ray a prayer of deliverance band be set free.  In you tube type in SCOAN deliverances and SCOAN testimonies, this will xplain what is happening.  Here is a link to one.

 

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Couldnt the bleeding simply be from breaking your hymen?

You only bled because you "popped your cherry" don't worry you'll survive ;)