My names April and i think i mite be pregnant. I've always been the "good girl" in the family i never got in trouble, i always got good grades in school, helped around the house, always went to church, i played sports, etc. but now i think im pregnant. My family comes from a STRICT Christian background and my father wanted me to wait untill marriage but thats not what I WANTED. i live with my dad in MD and i really REALLY dont want to tell him about this. I have no job and no money. is there any way i can get an abortion w/o my fathers consent? i really need someone to reply back ASAP im really scared
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hey april,
first off you need to find out for sure if you are ACTUALLY pregnate before even concidering abortion (WHICH I STRONGLY DONT ADVISE). so first off why do you thinkyour pregnate?> if you explain the situation i can help more.
thanks
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i don't believe in abortion but since im so young and im obviously NOT PREPARED to have a child i think thats the only thing i can do. but the last time i actually had sex was probubly 3 1/2 weeks ago. My period usually comes towards the end of the month but its never actually punctual (my period always starts after my sister is off hers & SHE JUST STARTED HERS TODAY..) and i don't want to wait untill she is finished to find out that im late. Im really scared and i really don't want my father to know b/c im scared of what he mite do to me. I've heard abortion is really painful and expensive. is that true? b/c i don't have any money and i don't want to ask my father or any other family member for the money b/c i know they're going to ask "what do you need it for?" CAN SOMEONE HELP ME !!! IM SCARED TO DEATH ! I DON'T KNOW WHAT IM GOING TO DO :(
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April Muhammad wrote:
ok i have a few things to say. 1.) you cant base your period off of your sisters. there are many factors which can affect your menstrual cycle one of the biggest factors is stress. If you are stressed it almost always delays it. if you base your timing of your cyle after your sister not only are you adding the possibility of your own body affecting the timing of your cyle but also your sisters body my be making her cyles different. does this make sense? 2.) have you taken a pregnancy test yet? if not i advise taking one but follow the directions exactly for maximum results i think it says that taking a test the very first thing in the morning after waking up is the best because thats when the pregnancy hormone (s) are most concentrated in your urin. 3) how old is your boyfriend? does he know that you may be pregnate? what does he think of the whole situation? and finally, when you had sex what happened to make you think you may be pregnate? was it unprotected? did the condom slip or break?
hope this helps some with more details i can help furthure
Biomajor'10 wrote:
hey april,
first off you need to find out for sure if you are ACTUALLY pregnate before even concidering abortion (WHICH I STRONGLY DONT ADVISE). so first off why do you thinkyour pregnate?> if you explain the situation i can help more.
thanks
i don't believe in abortion but since im so young and im obviously NOT PREPARED to have a child i think thats the only thing i can do. but the last time i actually had sex was probubly 3 1/2 weeks ago. My period usually comes towards the end of the month but its never actually punctual (my period always starts after my sister is off hers & SHE JUST STARTED HERS TODAY..) and i don't want to wait untill she is finished to find out that im late. Im really scared and i really don't want my father to know b/c im scared of what he mite do to me. I've heard abortion is really painful and expensive. is that true? b/c i don't have any money and i don't want to ask my father or any other family member for the money b/c i know they're going to ask "what do you need it for?" CAN SOMEONE HELP ME !!! IM SCARED TO DEATH ! I DON'T KNOW WHAT IM GOING TO DO :(
ok i have a few things to say. 1.) you cant base your period off of your sisters. there are many factors which can affect your menstrual cycle one of the biggest factors is stress. If you are stressed it almost always delays it. if you base your timing of your cyle after your sister not only are you adding the possibility of your own body affecting the timing of your cyle but also your sisters body my be making her cyles different. does this make sense? 2.) have you taken a pregnancy test yet? if not i advise taking one but follow the directions exactly for maximum results i think it says that taking a test the very first thing in the morning after waking up is the best because thats when the pregnancy hormone (s) are most concentrated in your urin. 3) how old is your boyfriend? does he know that you may be pregnate? what does he think of the whole situation? and finally, when you had sex what happened to make you think you may be pregnate? was it unprotected? did the condom slip or break?
hope this helps some with more details i can help furthure
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ok well to answer your 1st question...no #1 didn't make sence to me #2 no not yet but im going to buy one after school today. && #3 My bf is 18 and no he doesn't know because im not really sure myself but i don't want to tell him b/c maybe he might get scared and run off. Thats why i really need to know and the only i can find out is with that test. And to answer your last question yes we did have unprotected sex...
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well for the first question. it sounded to me like you get your period right after your sister starts hers correct? well goes your sister get her periods the same time every month? basically just because your sister has her period and you have not gotten yours yet doesnt mean your pregnate.... does this help?
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