I've got this one friend and he's the only one that knows I'm gay (He's straight) and he's known this for about 2 months, but in the past 2 weeks he has started getting more interested in me, like texting me a lot more than usual, and has seemed more "energetic" around me, a lot more than other people. I have always had a slight crush on him, but I feel as if I'm getting mixed messages from him. Does he like me or are we just becoming good friends?
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Howdy Alfalfasprouts471
The friend that you have could just be happy,greatful that you let him know a very deep and meaningful secret that you have and probably kept inside you for a very long time. Telling someone something like this could probably make themselves feel they are a better friend to you then they originally thought, making them interact with you more. Or possibly it could just so happen to be that he is interested in boys too and have feelings for you; now that he knows you're gay. This might give him a new sense of satisfaction. Personally, I would not jump into any conclusion and just see where this goes. If this starts bothering you let him know and if this leads to something special then I hope everything works out!
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I definitely agree with Gypster. Your friend is probably glad you can actually trust him to know something you kept hidden from many. If you find what he is doing a bit awkward don't necessarily jump to conclusion it can be taken wrong and end up screwing a good relationship. Try talking to him, maybe he is curious no one ever knows until they ask but don't beat around the bush or blurt it out, he can become intimidated. Just ease into it, you never know. :O
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