Ok so here's the thing my fiance' and I have been trying actively to get pregnant for 6 months . Well I was ovulating October 22 through the 27 and we had intercourse on the 22 the 23 the 24 and the 25 . Well I know how my cervix usually feels because I always chart it . It's been something that I have done since I had my first kid and the Doctors told me how to do it . Well with my son I found out I was pregnant rather early only 10 days after conception with my daughter it took almost 4 months for a HPT to show positive . Now I'm having problems finding out if I am now . This will be my third child and I get a gut feeling that I am . I'm having some symptoms but you know if you really want it you can make yourself have symptoms . Well checking my cervix it sits really high and is like mooshy ... I know that sounds rather gross but it's like really soft and wet . And I know it's not ovulation ! I'm supposed to start my cycle on the 11 or 12 and my cervix should be sitting low and it's not . I've gained 15 pounds over the past 2 weeks my stomach actually looks as though I'm 4 months pregnant and it's a possibilty that I could be right at 3 months because my last regular period was July 30 . I've had spotting since August and nothing like a regular period . In August I spotted on the 22 and 23 didn't even really have to wear any kind of protection to keep from getting it on my clothes . Then in Sept it came on the 11 and got off on the 12 and started back on the 14 and got off the same night then in October it came on the 11 and was gone on the 13 . And usually I get it on the 30 of every month and it goes for 4 or 5 days . But going on my cervix position and texture what do you think ? I think I am because like I said it's high soft and kinda closed and stays wet .