hi everyone. i am really worried is it safe to do masterbation with a water jet in my bath tub. Will it affect me when i grow up and want to get pregnant. i am 14 and i am really worried about this. Please do not judge me i know i did something wrong. I am just really worried a lot of the water went inside me and i pushed it out but...i dont know. Will this affect me when i want to get pregnant? i am really worried!
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lemonsandlimes,
Do you have pain? Most likely you didn't harm yourself. Water is what most of our bodies are composed of, and it is also as a cleanser for the body, both internally and externally. For example, it is used to flush out the colon/intestine (by pumping water through the annus), which is not harmful (this is called a colonic). What may be of a concern in your case is the pressure. But again, if you have no pain, then probably no harm. But perhaps a medical expert can give more advice.
The real problem with masturbation, which I know by experience, is that it is emotionally and psychologically addictive. Whenever life doesn't go as I hoped, I can retreat into my world of pleasure, where only good feelings are produced. But it doesn't last, and it is not a real solution. The highest pleasures come when you have complete control of your body and can use it to serve others. Those kinds of higher pleasures are not intense, like an orgasm, but are real, lasting, and much more satisfying in the long term.
The other problem is that masturbation may eventually lead to seeking pleasure with the "real thing", that is with a partner. And this is often before any commitments have been made via marriage. That can lead to wrecked feelings, single parent families, and other grief. There's really a lot of this in the world today and it is tragic. It would be sad if you gave yourself to a man who only used you for his own pleasure and then dropped you.
Perhaps if you cannot talk to your mother about these things, you should seek out an older woman who has good control of her life, and confide in her?
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i was a little bugged by your reply.
I masturbate plenty and it doesnt interfere with my life nor do i use it as a total solution for problems. Thats what i have my spiritual life for. But masturbation does help with self awareness and increase feelings of confidence in a woman. And it's healthy for the muscles. Also, I dont feel the need to go find a real partner. If anything masturbation keeps me feeling satisfied enough that I don't feel quite as desperate for a male partner. I mean, eventually a relationship and marriage will be nice. But i'm quite content with being single at this time in my life. I think you were well-intentioned but ur pushing some things on this younger girl that arent ALWAYS true. sometimes they can be. depends on the persons' general outlook at self control. Anyone can get addicted to anything that feels good...or let it lead into other bad areas if they dont have the self control. Isn't self control one of the fruits of the spirit? When we have that it certainly effects how our own actions play out.
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For all of you out there wondering " is this safe? is this going to interfere with my life as I get older and continue doing it ? " . Maybe I can answer those or other questions that have been on your mind .
I'm not a doctor , only a simple 14 year old , I'm about to turn 15 in a couple of months . Before I get into this I am NOT incouraging you to continue or to stop doing water jet masturbation or sex at all .
I've been doing it for about three or four years now . The first two years I did it only in the weekends . but then summer when I lost someone close to me , I did it everyday when I showered . It really began taking its toll on me when It was the third year my vagina grew bigger , not imensly , but bigger than it was . others might say it was since I was growing and becoming a lady . But I started having more pain than usual when I was on my period. Of course I didn't do it when I was on my period . but please try only doing it once in a while . everyone is mature here too, so don't be scared or shy about talking about it . Especially if you have any concerns
I'm not a doctor , only a simple 14 year old , I'm about to turn 15 in a couple of months . Before I get into this I am NOT incouraging you to continue or to stop doing water jet masturbation or sex at all .
I've been doing it for about three or four years now . The first two years I did it only in the weekends . but then summer when I lost someone close to me , I did it everyday when I showered . It really began taking its toll on me when It was the third year my vagina grew bigger , not imensly , but bigger than it was . others might say it was since I was growing and becoming a lady . But I started having more pain than usual when I was on my period. Of course I didn't do it when I was on my period . but please try only doing it once in a while . everyone is mature here too, so don't be scared or shy about talking about it . Especially if you have any concerns
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Hi, I am 16 and about to turn 17 this year... I have been doing jet water masturbation since 5 years or so. To be honest it hasn't effected me psychologically, emotionally, mentally or physically as such. I don't do it daily, I just so it sometimes like sometimes I do it for 3 times a week or don't do it for months. It's depends if I am in a mood. It is totally safe if the water is running at medium speed...if the speed of water is too fast and rough then it could be harmful for you vagina. You should be careful while your doing this as vagina is the most sensitive part of your body.
Hope this was helpful:-)
Hope this was helpful:-)
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Will blood traces come in doing the above as I had white discharge & saw the traces of blood
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Hello everyone..I wanna ask that insertion of pen, toothbrush bristles, thin vegetables, water jet, roller, vibrator into the vagina is harmful or not? I want to be pregnant later. And now I'm 19 and a virgin but I get strong feeling of sex when I'm alone at home.. please guide me if these are okay or not?
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Everything's okay except for the bristles.
That might harm your vagina so I don't suggest you do it. And when using a food put a condom on it
That might harm your vagina so I don't suggest you do it. And when using a food put a condom on it
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my periods are missing since I was young doing mastrubartion with water....
is it because of masturbation
is it because of masturbation
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I feel like its okay too do masterbation with water jets because its really just cleaning your body,so I say it's okay,but I'm no doctor so please don't judge me.
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I.T could just be your a late bloomer, the same thing happened with me but ask your mom when she got her period I.T may help
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I do masturbation by water just one thing goes strange that i pee accidently during masturbation alot
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I need very fast water on clitoris and also i need to touch nipple ...in this case i enjoy maximum so if I start to do I will do for at least 3 time and so I ‘m really worried for the shape of the vagina since during masturbation it becom so big and hard
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