Ok sounds good it’s best to talk with another person there or def make sure you have a way out like he’s not between you and the door ..... if things get too scary you can always go for the throat or groin or eyes and scream. But if his sister or someone that already knows the situation is in there with you guys you should be fine
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Yea his sister more then likely will be there. I’m going to try and talk to him outside. Anywhere but his bedroom. Thanks for those tips!
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We ended up talking in his room upstairs and at first he got upset and he got me in a corner and I started to cry and I was begging him to stop and that’s when he realized that I was now scared of him and he backed away and apologized. We sat down and I explain to him how it was wrong and that he hurt me. I also brought up him pushing and pulling me, he then revealed to me that he has anger issues. He said that he is going to try his hardest to not hurt me or force me to have sex. He did admit that he knew that he was technically raping me and that when he was touching me he knew it was wrong to hold me down.
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Ok I’m glad you guys talked what’s scary is that he KNEW it was wrong but continued doing t and didn’t care.... I hope things work out but “try my hardest” is also scary there should be no try it should never happen again...... you’re gonna have to be aware and if he doesn’t respect your or if he scares or hurts you again you need to leave it .... like I said if this is a power thing it may just get worse although I hope it doesn’t.... keep me posted
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Yea I agree he shouldn’t try his hardest he should just stop altogether. I do think that he will stop trying to me more powerful in the relationship because of when he backed away from me. And I will def keep you posted
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