I recently tried having sex for the first time with my boyfriend and it hurt a lot and he couldn't get it in. I also started bleeding and I think he may have torn something that wasn't my hymen while trying to get it in. We tried a couple of times after that and although I didn't bleed it still hurt just as much, it also felt like I really had to pee. If it's not the pain that makes me stop him it's the feeling that I need to pee. It doesn't feel like this when he fingers me, just when we try to have sex. We do a lot of foreplay and I really want to have sex but it just hurts too much. Is there anything I can do to make it easier?
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just take it slowly, if sex hurts go back to fore play and try again when you're more relaxed
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apart from you needing to relax a lot more, it may also help if he knows what he is doing. is he way bigger than you size wise?
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he's a lot more experienced then me so he knows what he's doing, and he is pretty big
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