i masturbate 1nce every week (sometimes less)
i can never seem to ejaculate or have an orgasm and its slightly worrying as all my friends can cum but i cant. its strange because i still get the same sort of pleasure.
please help
in case it helps (i just use my hands standing up, as i get really stiff and cant move my hand when lying on my back)
i can never seem to ejaculate or have an orgasm and its slightly worrying as all my friends can cum but i cant. its strange because i still get the same sort of pleasure.
please help
in case it helps (i just use my hands standing up, as i get really stiff and cant move my hand when lying on my back)
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HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Please don't worry. I know this is not the answer you want - but you still are very young. It would help if you could describe how far into puberty you are...but I assume you are not that far. You are VERY MUCH within the normal age range to not ejaculate yet when you masturbate.
You said that you can't seem to have an orgasm - but then said that you get the same sort of pleasure as your friends. I think you MAY be having an orgasm - just not ejaculating yet. VERY normal. Even if you are not having an orgasm yet - that too can be normal for younger guys...it sometimes takes time to figure out how to get yourself there. Some boys are able to bring themselves to orgasm VERY young - some it takes time. If you really have not had one yet - it will happen...just relax and enjoy all the feelings you are getting.
Try masturbating while sitting in a chair - or on the floor - if you can't lay down.
Reply back with more specifics about how far into puberty you are and I may be able to give you more specific answers...do you have any pubic hair yet - has your penis or testicles started to grow...etc?
Please don't worry. I know this is not the answer you want - but you still are very young. It would help if you could describe how far into puberty you are...but I assume you are not that far. You are VERY MUCH within the normal age range to not ejaculate yet when you masturbate.
You said that you can't seem to have an orgasm - but then said that you get the same sort of pleasure as your friends. I think you MAY be having an orgasm - just not ejaculating yet. VERY normal. Even if you are not having an orgasm yet - that too can be normal for younger guys...it sometimes takes time to figure out how to get yourself there. Some boys are able to bring themselves to orgasm VERY young - some it takes time. If you really have not had one yet - it will happen...just relax and enjoy all the feelings you are getting.
Try masturbating while sitting in a chair - or on the floor - if you can't lay down.
Reply back with more specifics about how far into puberty you are and I may be able to give you more specific answers...do you have any pubic hair yet - has your penis or testicles started to grow...etc?
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first of all thank you sooo much 4 replying and reassuing me. :-)
however i have got pubic hair(not massive amounts) and i have noticed that my penis has started to grow (abpout 2cm in the past few months or so, faster than the rest of my body) the chair idea helped massivley thanx. :-D
however i have got pubic hair(not massive amounts) and i have noticed that my penis has started to grow (abpout 2cm in the past few months or so, faster than the rest of my body) the chair idea helped massivley thanx. :-D
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My pleasure dude. A lot of guys get pubic hair before they can ejaculate.
Do you think you are having an orgasm when you masturbate? If so - you are well on your way. As long as you are getting to orgasm...that is what it's all about. Don't be in a rush to ejaculate honestly - then you have to worry about where you do it, and having to clean up, etc. You have the best scenario right now...all of the great feelings...no messy clean up or evidence!
Do you think you are having an orgasm when you masturbate? If so - you are well on your way. As long as you are getting to orgasm...that is what it's all about. Don't be in a rush to ejaculate honestly - then you have to worry about where you do it, and having to clean up, etc. You have the best scenario right now...all of the great feelings...no messy clean up or evidence!
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i agree with Taz and Also I'm the same age I'm about half way through 13 and i can only just cum now and like you i did have pubes before i could so no need to worry or anything just enjoy yourself :-)
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Thanks for the support there Crooky! It's always good to know that at least someone is reading what I write on here...hahaha...
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