i need some serious help just found out im 2 weeks pregnet wasnt palnned not ready for one yet.... i need some info on abortions i dont wanna look back and have guilt but i dont wanna bring a child into this world right now... are abortions mentally and physically painful?? how much does it cost???? does it hurt??? someone plz help me if u can...
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hi, i have had an abortion an its the worst thin i have ever done i surgest u think long and hard about this! seriously! wen u look back u still remeber it! im 18 and it hurt me and it still does i do not believe in abortions any more! i wish i had tht kid now i am a lovin mother! and i tell u wot its the best thing tht could happen to u~!
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I have had two procedures in the past, i won't lie to you but there was probably a million other things i would rather have been doing at the time. It's very early on for you so now is the time to have it done if this is what you have decided to do.
I was 6 weeks and 9 weeks at the time of my abortions, and i had both procedures done at Planned Parenthood, as my doctor refused to perform either of them., which was his choice and i was fine with it.
For me, the pain was not excruciating, but it wasn't a walk in the park either. Both of my procedures were done in two steps. The first day i was given laminaria which is a sea weed looking piece of material that the doctor inserted into my cervix, this allowed my cervix to open slowly thru the night. The cramps hit about midnight, this was me starting to dialate.
The next morning i went in for round two, the actual abortion. I was given a valium for my nerves and was asked if i was sure that this is what i wanted to do. The counselor talked to me for quite a long time and gave me time to think about it. I was escorted into the room and laid down on the table, the process began. I remember the sound of the machine, it sounded like a blow dryer to me. I just squeezed my eyes shut and thought about everything else other than what was going on. I saw a long thin tube with a scoop type of spoon looking thing attached, i felt cramps, there was a lot of pressure. After 4 or 5 times of this feeling, it was done.
I bled for less than a week, minimal cramps, just tired. The guilt was powerful for a while and i did talk to counselors a few times, it passed but it still pops up in my head at times.
I will not judge you as i have no right. You are not a bad person, this is what you need to do, if it is.
This was my experience, everyone is different, some good some not so much.
You may catch a lot of slack here, some will understand, some will not.
This is your life and you are in charge of your decisions.
As far as the cost, i am not to sure anymore. Maybe someone with a more recent procedure can help you there.
I was 6 weeks and 9 weeks at the time of my abortions, and i had both procedures done at Planned Parenthood, as my doctor refused to perform either of them., which was his choice and i was fine with it.
For me, the pain was not excruciating, but it wasn't a walk in the park either. Both of my procedures were done in two steps. The first day i was given laminaria which is a sea weed looking piece of material that the doctor inserted into my cervix, this allowed my cervix to open slowly thru the night. The cramps hit about midnight, this was me starting to dialate.
The next morning i went in for round two, the actual abortion. I was given a valium for my nerves and was asked if i was sure that this is what i wanted to do. The counselor talked to me for quite a long time and gave me time to think about it. I was escorted into the room and laid down on the table, the process began. I remember the sound of the machine, it sounded like a blow dryer to me. I just squeezed my eyes shut and thought about everything else other than what was going on. I saw a long thin tube with a scoop type of spoon looking thing attached, i felt cramps, there was a lot of pressure. After 4 or 5 times of this feeling, it was done.
I bled for less than a week, minimal cramps, just tired. The guilt was powerful for a while and i did talk to counselors a few times, it passed but it still pops up in my head at times.
I will not judge you as i have no right. You are not a bad person, this is what you need to do, if it is.
This was my experience, everyone is different, some good some not so much.
You may catch a lot of slack here, some will understand, some will not.
This is your life and you are in charge of your decisions.
As far as the cost, i am not to sure anymore. Maybe someone with a more recent procedure can help you there.
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