i am 15 years old and my libia minora is a very dark brownish color and when im touched down there i can't feel anything. i was molested a lot as a kid (like A LOT, about over 20 times by two different people ) and I've had a lot of yeast infections while growing up. is there any way that a nerve in my libia minora can be damaged? my libia had been this way for about two and a half years. this is really bothering me and i don't know what to do. i can feel absolutely nothing down there or on my clit and the color of my libia minora is really freaking me out. help please
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I am very sorry to hear that you have been molested. Have you reported that to the Child Protection Authorities?
However you haven't explained exactly what physically happened to judge what impact that might have had, and an indication of who the two perpetrators were might help. When did it start, and when did it stop?
When did you have the yeast infections? How old were you, and have you any idea what caused them? How were the infections treated?
Your labia minora changed when you were 12? Did this coincide with any event? When did you start to enter puberty? When was your first period?
It is possible for nerve damage to occur almost anywhere. Can you think of any trauma that may have happened to them at that time. The lack of feeling in your clit could also be from trauma in your genital area. How does this affect sexual arousal? When did the sensitivity in your clit stop? Does this mean you never masturbate?
Dark brown labia are not uncommon, and will vary among different ethnic groups, and could possibly be associated with developing womanhood.
It could be a physical problem you have, or it may be partly psychological because of the molestations.
I hope these comments and questions help you think about what has happened. It is important for you to be able to talk about what happened and try and bring about some sort of emotional healing.
If you can respond to this, I will see if I can offer any further light on it and help you.
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yes, my libia changed when i was twelve but i started my first period at the age 11 (1 month after my eleventh birthday). i dont really remember if any trauma had happened. i get turned on A LOT and i try masturbating but i never can feel anything so masturbating never really helps. i dont know whats hppening... my mom said that she'll take me to see a gynecologist but she pprobably wont... she thinks that if she leaves me like this than it'll keep me from having sex so i really hope that you can help..
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I an glad you have been able to forgive them. That is a major step in your recovery.
Yeast infections (vaginal thrush) are common and caused by Candida fungi (most often Candida albicans). In fact it is reckoned that up to 50% women have Candida living naturally in their vagina without it causing any symptoms. Thrush is sometimes brought on by antibiotics because antibiotics get rid of the friendly bacteria in the vagina.
I would think the change to the colour of your labia (not libia) is because you entered puberty. Changes do not happen all at once. Your health service provider should be able to confirm the normality of the colour if you are worried. Obviously I can't see it.
If you cannot think of any particular trauma (like damage from being hit there) then it might be from what was done by your molesters (which was why I asked exactly what they did). Also it might be a psychological blocking. Some people get concerned because they 'enjoyed' the pleasurable sensations they felt when being molested, and have guilt attached to that. However, that is perfectly normal, but in no way excuses what was done to you. That is an area to consider. So how did you feel at the time? Did those reactions change over the years?
When you get turned on, exactly where do you get the sensations? Just your clit, or elsewhere? Do you get vaginal wetness of any sort? How do these sensations compare with what you felt when you were molested?
What is it that turns you on? What are the 'triggers'?
When you try to masturbate, what do you do that is different from what was done to you?
It would be a good idea to see a gynae, if you can, who would be able to see and sense the problem rather than me having to ask questions. But at least this is somewhat anonymous.
Can you convince your mother about abstaining from sex for a while?
Hope this helps a bit more
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