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I recently messed around with a guy like one day after my last period (which came a day early but was normal otherwise) and then like a week b4 i expected to get my next one. Both times we used the withdrawal method.
I got what i think is my period. It was 3 days later than i expected and then it was lighter the first 2 day but got heavier on the 3rd day and back to being lighert on the 4th. I usually get light on the first day but heavy for the few days following. I am supposed to start bc on sunday but i'm not sure if i could be pregnant or not.
I also lately have been totally stressed out about this whole situation and have really messed up my sleepin schedule which may be the cause but i am totally freaked out and scared to even get a hpt test...

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The withdrawl method is only effective when you are not ovulating! So you might just be pregnant. PLUS you have too take so many precautions when using the Withdrawl/Natural method. It has a failure rate of 50 - 67%!!! And IF you have not read up on this and don't understand it, it is Russian Roulette. Not too mention STD's

Your statment about starting BC I take it that you haven't been on any before right?! So until you find out that you are not pregnant, which could take up to 2 months for you too find out. Don't start it OK?

If you get pregnant right before your period is due, your body wont know it yet. So it will allow you to have your period. And more and more women are actually still getting periods for their 1st trimester - usually shorter and lighter though. So you can't base ANYTHING on just getting a period.

Can you give me the dates of everything, and then I can let you know when too take pregnancy tests? I need too know when you had unprotected sex, the start and end of your period dates, and have you been sexually active in the past? I am worried you might either be pregnant, have an STD or both!!!! So let me try and figure out the dates and probabilities 1st OK?
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I got my period last month around the 10th real light but it got heavier on the 11th and stayed heavy like normal and it ended on the 15-16. I had been gettin it on the 12th the few months previous to that. I then had sex on the 17 or 18th i don't remember and also on 6th. i also had sex in like May 2nd using the withdrawal method.
I got my period on the 15th this month and still havin it but it is lgihter than normal. I still have to use tampons but only filled like 4 reg ones and mostly the others have only been like 1/4 to 1/2 full.
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This is an iffy one, the sex on the 17th and 18th is around the time you would be ovulating - due to your short periods, The May 2 one - MIGHT have too do with this, but I don't think so. If anything it would be the 17th.18th one that is the biggest worry - regarding pregnancy. Unfortunately you are going too have to wait a bit. Give it till next week and see what a Pregnancy test says. The test can only be accurate when your HGI - pregnancy hormones - are high enought too detect.

Don't take the pill, till all of this is cleared up OK?! And PLEASE PLEASE use a condom everytime!!! Because like I have said several times on her, that these days pregnancy could be the least of your worries. Good luck!
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wat would b the most accurate test that measures low levels of HGI? when should i take the test?
the june 6th one wouldn't b a big worry compared to the may 17th?
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Well if you think that the May 17th one is the biggest owrry, that is enough time for the HCG levels too show. Yet again, If you are pregnant it is hard too tell. So take one now, and lets see. This will also help a bit with your stress factor. Take it in the morning when the urine is stronger and more concentrated OK? Let me know!
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I finally got the guts to take the test today and it was negitive :-D ... so i am hoping that everything is fine and i just stressed myself out about the whole thing... i will definitely gonna b more careful in the future...
do u think i will be ok to still start my bc on sunday (tomorrow)?
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I think so! Since you have had a period this month I think you dodged the bullet. So yes start them. BUT that said, I don't mean too sound like an authority figure here - you HAVE to use condoms EVERYTIME. IF your boyfriend doesn't like them TOUGH!!!!! The really bad STD's have risen greatly in the last couple of years, Herpes, Ghonorea, Syphillis! There is no cure for STD's and they are with you for ever, and some you can pass on to any future children. So it is YOUR body hon, and there is NO play time without protection OK? Take care of your body, health and future!!! There sermon done!!! XD
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Hey csti110, I'm glad to hear that you are negative! Have you also decided to see your doctor about any STD tests or anything too? It might be a good idea just to familiarize yourself with the process. What kind of birth control are you on now?
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