The number of posts on this website to do with confusion over porn preferences and fear over sexuality is worrying; I am here to say "don't worry" - because as soon as you stop seeing it as a big thing, all of a sudden you'll realise it doesn't actually matter.
I am a mostly straight woman, who happens to like both gay and lesbian porn; this has no bearing on my sexuality, becuase what stimulates you in porn, is not necessarily what you want for yourself. I consider myself 'sexually empowered'; if I meet a good looking man, will I flirt with him? Of course! A woman who I find attractive? Why the hell not? At the end of the day, who cares other than you yourself?
You can spend your entire life worrying about your sexuality, whether watching a certain type of porn means your gay or straight etc. Or, you can get over it and realise that human beings are sexual creatures, and we will find attractive whover we damn well want to find attractive.
I am a straight woman who has loving boyfriend, I love football, have done a mechanic apprenticeship, am currently the badass head of a global corporation, have had girlfriends in the past, and even a threesome with a gay couple. I am empowered because I do what I want; I don't worry about conforming to peoples expectations, because at the end of the day, it is none of their business.
Follow your desires, love who you want to love, and don't worry about labelling yourself. We don't fit in these uniformed little boxes we like to try and categorise ourselves into - we are spontaneous, impulsive, and fluid - labels are a constraint on your freedom.
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