Okay so before you automatically judge, let me a explain a few things.
I've been dating my boyfriend, who I was best friends with for over a year before hand. We met at a Christian youth and I am best friends with his younger sister who is 15, and very close with his family. we've been going out for about 8 months. We are Both virgins. I am homeschooled, and he dropped out to work. Before we started dating, I had only ever kissed one other guy, and I was my boyfriends first kiss. (he was 16 when we started dating.) he is extremely respectful and caring and smart, quite innocent as well actually. When we first started dating, we didn't kiss for about three weeks. Not because we didn't want to, I did, he said he wanted to take it slow because he did not want to hurt me. when we finally did it was amazing. He also was very serious about telling me he loved me, as he wanted to take that slow as well. It wasn't intil our 6th month annaversiy he told me. it was perfect haha :) Anyways, a few of weeks ago, about 7 and a bit months into our relationship, we slept together. Yes, we used protection and no I was NOT forced into it. He was extremely careful and respectful and constantly asked me if I was sure I wanted to. I was. It's been a month since, we only did it once. Before hand we had been pretty sexually frustrated and we both knew we wanted to. (another cute thing, he doesnt call it sex, it likes to call it making love as he believes its a beautful was to get closer to the person you love..hehe) I have no regret and neither does he, but we have decided to wait a little longer to do it again. I am 14, turning 15. He is 17. We both have Christian backgrounds but I have been struggling with my faith for years. I honestly have no regret, and we were very careful and safe. Afterwards, he just held me in his arms and made sure I was happy and I felt safe and I did. I have never been pressured into anything and yes, I am young but I know I love this boy very much. And maybe 14 was too young, but I don't like to regret things as its really not good for you and honestly, I don't regret it anyways. Your opinions aren't changing anything but at the same time, I would like to see what other people think of this? Hateful comments will be ignored but i am open to criticism. Thank you xox
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I'm going to be brutally honest; You shouldn't have done it. At the age of 14, you're still VERY VERY young. I have a sister at the age of 21, going 22, and she has not yet lost her virginity..
You might think that "Hey, he loves me, yada yada yada", the sad part is, only 50% of the bullcrap he said to you, was probably true. Take it from experience, and because I'm a guy-- Guys are pigs. And you really should've waited for the right man to come. You may also not regret it now, but you will in the future, I guarantee it. EVERYONE regrets their first time.
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That is so rude and very misguiding. What youve just said is total nonsense and utter rubbish. You sound like someone bitter from your own past experiences.
Your sis is 21 and still a virgin, perhaps due to circumstance. Guys for girls who are attractive and who they find chemistry with.
Sex is okay and if the girl was happy with having sex then it is her choice. Why have you to go in and put your quality or moral tag to it. You are so narrowminded.
I commend the girl who was confident enough to have sex with her boyfriend. She will never regret it. Why are you putting thoughts and doubts in her mind? This is how society/people destroy girls/women. They brainwash them into believing something bad has happened when in fact both the individuals in the relationship were quite content with having a sexual relationship. You are the one who will destroy the girl by making her feel bad for her actions which may I say are perfectly normal, biological and instinctive.
Your brutal honesty is nothing but ignorance and prudishness.
Your sis is 21 and still a virgin, perhaps due to circumstance. Guys for girls who are attractive and who they find chemistry with.
Sex is okay and if the girl was happy with having sex then it is her choice. Why have you to go in and put your quality or moral tag to it. You are so narrowminded.
I commend the girl who was confident enough to have sex with her boyfriend. She will never regret it. Why are you putting thoughts and doubts in her mind? This is how society/people destroy girls/women. They brainwash them into believing something bad has happened when in fact both the individuals in the relationship were quite content with having a sexual relationship. You are the one who will destroy the girl by making her feel bad for her actions which may I say are perfectly normal, biological and instinctive.
Your brutal honesty is nothing but ignorance and prudishness.
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