masturbating at age 50 years

I found my husband 52 masterbating wile looking a Nannie model porn I was extremely hurt by this my self Esteam is nothing now. I told his how this made me feel it seem it doesn't matter to him and told me hill do it again. I asked why he couldn't come to me no reply. I've been contplatimg on moving out far way. I am extrely hurt and feel might go out and cheat. Please help

Well,after so many comments men gave you that masturbation is normal i can contribute also that i am 62 years and i do it at least 5-6 times per week.My wife knows it  as i knows that she doing it also.She never happen to catch me but i catch her several times without want it while she was looking TV with some extra romantic series!!!

I don't see anything wrong with this,if i do it or she is doing it.This is very normal for both of us.Is a common secret that no one from opposite gender can give you so much sexual pleasure, as YOU CAN to yourself.

So,both men and women stop worry about this and feel free to do it when you need it.

The only problem is when for some reasons you can't do it(short time before you did it or you had sex with your wife) and the nature react negatively.This is the wrong way and you can stop immediately.Don't try to destroy yourself.This last sentence isn't only for masturbation but also sex with a partner.So,take care of yourself.

 

I'm 55 and still masturbate almost daily. This keeps men and women in a peaceful state as it strips off the anxieties that may exist from your daily grind. You'd probably benefit from it as well, go ahead give it a go!

  There is nothing wrong in masturbating I  ITS GOOD FOR YOUR PROSTRATE AND THE SPERM HELPS YOUR HAIR GROW AGAIN

I am 49 and have been masturbating between 2-3 times a day since I was 14 years old...I feel great and my partner of 10 years has no issues with me. We have sex 2-3 times a month and are enjoying our sexual lives.

 

I think this is normal. When I was 50 I did it about twice a week as well as having sex with my wife. Having a quick one --- depending if you are circumcised or not -- is not abnormal.It is something that you just do and like doing. As time goes on you might do it less but does it really matter --- it is something that you do alone and without harming anyone. Much is made of the rights and wrongs of having a wank ---- I was worried about it for years --- in the end I realised that its just something that you do --- -- so why stop? I am now over 60 and masturbate much less often. This is not deliberate --- it just happened. It is not any easy thing to talk about --- but maybe you should try --- it isnt as bad a thing as you think. Why not ask if you can be part of it sometimes? Have you actually watched a male masturbation ? Understanding is very much key to overcoming how you currently feel about your husbands sexual habits. I would suggest that you deal with this now --- dont let it become a bigger issue than it is. Masturbatiion --- male and female, is quite natural and not something that should be hard to talk about. Your husband will not stop, so please --- understand why he does it and accept things for what they are. This is not an unfaithful or lude act --- lots of people do it every day.

You should ask him if he would like you to perform orally while he watches and looks at the porn...this will spice up your lovelife for sure.

I am in my 60's widowed and still masturbate 4 or 5 time a week, but if my wife was still living I would NOT masturbate at all and make love to her about 4 or 5 times a week.

I am in my 60's and masturbate 4 or 5 times a week, that is OK for a 66 year old widower, but if my wife was living, I would make love to her about 4 or 5 times a week and NOT masturbate.

IM 53 YEARS OLD . I USE TO MASTURBATE ALMOST EVERY DAY AT LEAST ONE MAY BE 3. IM NOT SAYING THT IT IS A GOOD HABIT BUT I FEEL HAPPY AND SATISFACTION. THE REASON IS IM ALONE IN FRONT OF THE INTERNET 9 HOURS EVERY DAY. MY FRIEND IS 59 YEARS OLD AND HE IS ALMOST THE SAME LIKE ME. MY WIFE DONT KNOW ABOUT THIS. SO LET YOUR HUSBAND DO IT . THERE IS NO HARM. DEAL WITH HIM LIKE YOU DONT KNOW ABOUT THIS. WISH YOU HAPPY LIFE

Come on Guest, get a life, you say you are married but masturbate 1 to 3 times a day, you also say that you are on the Internet for 9 hours a day, probably looking at porn sites of naked women, that is why you masturbate so often. Get out and about, don't look at the Internet just as much and get down to make love to your wife, I am a widower, so I have a excuse to masturbate about 4 or 5 time a week, I am telling you now, if she was with me I would NOT masturbate at all but make love about 4 or 5 times a week, your wife must be wondering why you do not make love to her, stop the wanking and get down and have real sex with her.

Dear, My wife has no interest in sex may be because she has rehumatoid artherities. At the bed time she bring some pain killer oil and start to massage her leg and palms because there in pain for all her joints. I help her to massage palm and knees. I took her to many hospital and made even surgery for tha palm two times.How can i approch her for sex while she is crying of pain? last threee i made sex only two times. Another reason that she is too much angry for small reasons. These things will effect the nights. i want to say more reason for my masturbation. may be later. now im in office i've to do some job. Thanks.

So sorry to hear about your wife, and I apologise for being a little hard on you yesterday, in fact I thought the moderator had or did not allow my letter to be published. I know what it is like to have a wife that is ill, my wife was ill with dementia for 7 or so years, she stayed in a nursing home until she died just over 3 years ago, you do have a good excuse for masturbation just like I have, some of the photos on the internet relieve the feeling you and I have instead of having sex with our wives. Once again I apologise for yesterday, I now understand in fact, the saying in English is :- "that we are in the same boat" which means that our situation regarding our sex lives are rather similar, Regards

I am 50 years old and I masturbate at least once a day & enjoy it so much as if I was a teenager, It is normal

Perfectly normal, although if you are married I think that should be making love to your wife once a day. By the tone of your post you seem to be single, widowed or perhaps devorced. Nothing wrong with masturbating in your 50's or 60's, I am 66 and still do it frequently, I am a widower, so I have a good excuse.