My boyfriend can't make me orgasm throught sex, and rarely gives me oral now.

maybe he doesnt like goin down-----some love it

some dont and there doesnt seem to be much middle ground----guys are all different

------I might recommend a vibrator that you hold on the outside on ms clitty while his fingers are inside of u and you tell him the speed you want---this works pretty well-----especially with water based lube jelly as needed with a lil more water on top of it----pretty slippery stuff

----if he masters that, maybe he'll get the idea to do the same with his penis

All in the context of a loving respectful relationship, some guys equate there lovers to sport bikes---really fast motorcycles--

-at first you get to know her slowly and then the rider says---ok --lets see what this baby can do-----works well with fast girls

other links----urethral sponge;skene's glands;paraurethral glands;G-spot;U-spot------making a mess

If he isn't very enthusiastic about pleasing you there may not be much you can do about it other than find someone who is. In his mind sex may only about him getting his pleasure and that's a horrible way for you to live.

All you had to do was show me a vulva and I wanted to kiss it, and lick it and play with it until I made it purrrr. If he doesn't feel like that I doubt there is much you can do to change him. If he does want to and just doesn't know how, then the two of you can have a wonderful time exploring how to make yours purrr like a happy kitten.

First talk and tell him what you want.  If he is willing to explore your needs then you can get it going.  You must have an equal partnership relationship for it to work.  Offer to 69 instead of giving him head.  This would give you simultaneous oral.  The better he is the better you will be in return is the offer.

Second introduce the toy to help stimulate you.  Learn what you like angles and depth with speed.  Then teach your bf.  Guaranteed it will be a turn on for him to get you off.  Then you can switch it up and let him use the toy and still insert his penis for the finishing touches.  Just make sure your juices lube him up or he may not slide in.