My boyfriend and I were having intercourse for the first time when suddenly he just went soft, he says its from having blue balls for to long? is this an affect from blue balls or should I think otherwise
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Hi Gaylee,
All guys can and do go soft at times during intercourse. He should be able get it back though.
It could be from anything.
Don't focus on it or make a big deal about it. If he worries about it happening again it will. Anxiety can cause this.
Hope it helps.
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It happens just because it does. It's more likely when he is less experienced. Kind of a stress thing. The more you/he think about it the more likely it will happen. So just enjoy each other and know you ae having fun and it's less likely to happen.
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