MY HOUSBAND's PENIS GOES SOFT DURING INTERCOURSE

This happens to me. usually after a dry spell. after a while of (not constant) intercourse it perform better. it's extremely frustrating to us men too. I feel so horrible for my significant other. I've been looking into this subject for some time (since i was 19) I used to think it was because of my weight, blood pressure. I am not 100% sure. I just know What I think about it. Which is it's a mix of all of those things along with some other. Changing positions stopping for an unexpected reason. or for some guys that have a problem with "getting off" too soon keeping their minds on other things so they don't. As dickhead as it sounds wearing a condom doesn't seem to help either issue because then it cuts out sensation.

Just so you know. When this happens. the guy feels bad too(unless he is a soulless bastard) I know how my significant other feels when this happens. she feels exactly how you feel. You want help getting passed it. Talk to him. have him re-ensure your feelings. Either way it has nothing to do with us not being attractive (unless you are in fact gay, happened to one of my friends) It's something that happens and you just need to find what works for you too. you also need to keep in mind the average time for sex is not the godly amount we have all seen in porno or movies.

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-Newl0w

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I HAVE THE SAME ISSUE WITH MY HUSBAND . ITLL STAY HARD FOR ORAL SEX AND WHEN WE DO THE DIRTY TALK BUT AS SOON AS I CLIMB ON AND START GOING IT GOES SOFT. IM 28 AND HIS 38 BUT MY THING IS HE WASNT LIKE THIS WHEN WE FIRST GOT TOGETHER. I WAS ACTUALLY FATTER WHEN WE GOT TOGETHER THEN I AM NOW . SO WHATS THE DEAL?

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Mrs. Jennifer, I'm going to tell you what your Mom should have told you years ago, it doesn't matter what you look like, if your husband is attracted to you, he's attracted to you.

At your first description, I would've guessed that he was having issues with medications, but I'm guessing being so young, you don't have that problem. Sometimes, in men, medication can cause this problem.

But more than likely, it sounds like he has a problem with Porn & masterbation. I will tellyou why. If he is only able to "get off" with fantasy and with porn, no matter how "fine" you are, he's going to have a problem. He's probably been masterbating since he was a teen, and it was considered "normal", but what they don't tell you is that it teaches you to be selfish with your parner and leaves her very unsatisfied.

A few suggestions. Talk with him about his fantasies (this is not always easy, but it's doable). Second, do you watch porn with him, if not, would you? I don't think that's the solution, watching porn with him, but it may help him. Try dirty talk in bed. Try role playing. Have him spend more time or foreplay with you so that you are satisfied by the time he's ready and you can finish together.

Lastly, he needs to draw away from the porn. Has a beautiful, loving woman in front of him and he prefers the DVDs or computer? This spells a problem.

Do not add more people in your bedroom, do not get surgery and do not give up. With open, honest communication, you can have a satisfying sex life with your husband. So try those things and I hope it works. I promise you can have a satisfying sexual life with your husband.

Oh, Congratulations on your wedding.

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Get your partners to start using D-Aspartic Acid. You can get it from supplement shops and it is the best natural testosterone booster on the market. I had this problem but since I started using D-Aspartic Acid I've been rock hard during and after. Just one level scoop about 20 minutes before breakfast in a small glass of water should be enough. He will start to feel slightly better and more energetic within a week, and results will really begin to show after that.

Another advantage of this is that after he's finished the container, his natural testosterone levels will be up. This is better for him and obviously better for you ;)

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Hi my husband and i have been 2gether 4the past 4 years active and i know he loves sex but 4the last 3times his penis goes soft during intercourse he is 34 years old and has no med.problems

The answer is pretty obvious to me. The porn of course. It is a diversion of the sexual drive and actually mental adultery in my opinion.

Hi Jennifer, I think and know I can answer your question. The problem is your husband is exposed to too much porn and is oversexing himself by masturbation 24/7. For him your nude body is no more exciting than you or I looking at a car is sexual to us. When you see so many nude women the magic of eroticism disappears. Make him quit the porn and stop the bating for a good month, I can promise you that this will fix the problem. I know this because I am a man who use to bate on average up to 5 times a day, and never less than two to three times daily. The end result was after several years of doing this and seeing thousands of women nude, I found myself rubbing as fast and as hard as I could just to get myself to ejaculate, and that was with usually a soft erection. When it came to having sex with my wife, I found myself not able to maintain a hard on for more than a few minutes and that was only after I could get it in her, If we changed positions, the lack of excitement made me loses my erection completely and that was the end of our sexual activity for the day. Not to mention that due to all my sexual knowledge now after seeing so many sexual acts on the internet, what her and I were doing was way too boring for what I had imagined we could be doing, even though now I realize that these couples in these videos who are having the perfect sex and performing all sorts of acts is not what reality is all about. Most porn stars can not even get it up after they have been with so many women. The next time you watch one, notice how they have to bate themselves to make it hard and also to make the money shot. That’s because their penis is namelessly dead and both the mental and physical feeling are gone. The only reason there penis’s appear to be as big and as hard as they are, well other than the fact that they use fisheye lenses in their cameras which create an optical illusion to make them look well endowed, is the fact that they have to use a penis pump to even get it up. Notice I did not say hard, that’s because it is not hard from excitement, it is hard because they sucked all the blood into their shaft, and even this does not work after overuse and they get so stretched out. As for the women, the things they do are also to enhance your fantasy, and are far from reality. If your husband thinks he is going to really find a woman like this out there, I wish him the best of luck and I think you better send him on his way because these women do not exist.

I would like to add though that the reason I masturbated as much as I did was because I have a heavy sex drive, where my wife on the other hand is happy with once every few weeks or even less. In your case, this is not the problem and he has no excuse. I looked at your photo and believe me, you are a very beautiful and attractive person who enjoys having sex. What man could ask for more? Jennifer, your husband has no idea how lucky he is. As for getting your butt enlarged, please don't even think of doing that. Now days it is so hard to find a slender and attractive girl as yourself so please don‘t ruin your beautiful assets! As for your husband, if he does not like it maybe it is time for you renew his subscription to penthouse and move on. You are way to sexy to be wasting your time with this guy who would rather bate then make love to you! By the way, I solved my problem by finding a lady friend who loves sex as much as I do, and by doing this it also improved my relationship with my wife because now I am not nagging her for sex all the time, Instead when I need it I visit my friend every chance I get, and I favor her in return by doing the same for her. Life is too short, so if he would rather bate his life away, you need to do what you need too do honey because in reality, cheating is wrong but what is he doing to you? Maybe he is not making love to these women physically, but mentally and in his lusting mind after bating to so many women, I can assure you that he thinks he is the king of all porn stars.

Hello Jennifer.. So the answer to this question is simple. When having sex with a woman it's not as tight as you can make your hand. Sure it may be wetter.. but it's not as tight as he is used to with his hand. This just means he masturbates to much. Tell him to quit masterbating for a month and you should be fine..

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but the problem with u is that ur husband is a LOL
so i suggest u to try an indian guy like me as we can keep our pennis till
the girls get tired

Sometimes it helps to do new stuff while making love. One thing i seen that works. Is get on top. When you think he might be getting limp then gwt off him and give a blow job.. as long as you keep yourself clran its not gross. And some people get turned on quick that way.

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