I have caught my husband masturbating to she-male (his exact search words) porn several times now. This last time, he was specifically interested in the "big penises" category of shemale porn. I found that he is literally zooming in on a penis picture and getting off to it. We have only been married two years, and for quite a while now (maybe the past year) he is hardly interested in having sex; he says he is tired, or this or that. We have sex sometimes only 3 times in a month. I've tried talking with him, coming on to him more, trying to be more appealing, etc. but nothing helps. I've also tried talking about his porn preferences (she-males), and he freaks out when I voice my concerns about how he doesn't seem to be turned on by me anymore, but instead by penises (because that is literally what he zooms in on when he looks at the shemale pictures - not boobs, etc.). Obviously talking with him isn't working, and he isn't able to or willing to stop, and I'm at a loss as to what to do. If our sex life was great, I wouldn't be nearly as worried. But the fact that he seems utterly uninterested in me has me concerned.
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mam there is only one answer divert his mind towards you and seduce him as much you can
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No this does not mean he is gay or bi. PLEASE LISTEN! I am too a straight male that watches shemale porn and some gay porn. I also "freaked" out when the topic came about with some of my ex sex partners. I only have been open with a few. I love anal stimulation by tongue, finger, and couple times they used a strap-on. Here is the deal," taboo or wrong" porn is interesting and exciting. This is what my HONEST opinion is for you to do. Next time you are giving him oral sex, try rubbing his rear end, or sticking a finger in for anal stimulation. He should respond to that! Show interest in the topics or material you have "caught" him looking at. You SHOULD NOT try to talk about the issue for as it seems he is uncomfortable talking about it. Also answer this or think about this, even if the acts are "gay" is it wrong or gay if the WOMAN he loves and is with is the one doing the acts?? He will probably thank you and be pleased physically and EMOTIONALLY more than any woman has ever pleased him, EVER. Please be open minded and try for him. NEVER in an argument call him gay or throw it up in his face!! He already feels you would judge. If you make comments you two's sex life will never again rebuild. So please try and please update me to how it worked out. I hope I have helped by speaking on experience, a lot of it dealing with this issue.
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