MY HOUSBAND's PENIS GOES SOFT DURING INTERCOURSE

I have this same problem but different. My boyfriend will stay hard for a little while and if I don't get off quick enough for him to he goes soft then we have to keep repeating the process of trying to get him hard and etc has for the attractiveness that's not the issue. The issue is the porn and masterbastion. Porn creates a lot of anger and high expectations. For myself have had that happen being a female and realized bc I was masterbating bc my boyfriends penis couldn't get hard after so long you need more stimulus more imaginative things to arise you. With that being said it's not you. It's him. It can be an addictive thing but for me it wasn't. I was just turned on and I needed a release and certain porn shows did it for me. My advice to you is to ask him to lay off the porn and to try new things. To have an open mind (of course within the guild lines of things your both comfortable with) no doing things you don't like just bc you think he will bc that will only set you up for failure. Bc after all it's about both of y'all. Also masterbation unfortunately for men to put it short can be a problem bc well they use there hand for the most part and it's not like it's going anywhere! So first off jacking off is never an option and this answers the second persons question is the only time it is okay to jack off is if it's to prolong the climax for either partner. Like you said he got off twice he should have jacked off once at least a few hours before so y'all could have had an actual sexual experience.

Hope this helps! I'm sure I've left something out if so comment back!

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I think your husband suffers from porn induced ED.... in this type of ED man usually gets harder while watching porn but dont get harder during real sex.....but no need to worry it can be cured. U can just search on google how to cure that....
Thanks.

lol. yes lady, it is absolutely normal.

If he has less testosterone. How can I help him gain that back? Is there easy medication for this to help?

Silly.... i was searching for the web for a medical reason why he might be having more soft-ies than normal. Which i will be making him see a doctor for some blood work, we'll start from there since we dont have other problems like porn, drugs, depression, etc. Dont always assume that the problem is you, if youre feeling bad or insured, maybe you should stop n look at your relationship/talk to each other. If youre having whatever feelings , simply over a soft penis, you might have bigger problems underneath the rug. To the lady who originally wrote the post, you are beautiful, dont get surgery. Personally, o think excessive porn is bad, everything in moderate is fine as long as it doesnt affect the relationship (practice awareness). I know it sounds lame, but sex isnt everything nor is it done one way. And yes, size matters buts its nothing without performance (speak up during sex). Till you two work through the problem, it isnt something thats going to resolve its self. In the mean time, there are temp.solutions (oral, toys, finger, grinding...), youll be suprise that if you work as a team, there are lots of ways to get off if you love n connect with each other. Hope you get down to the dirt of things and find some answers (truth isnt always pretty but may not be bad either).

I have the same problem, my bf masterbates and watches porn behind my back! I asked him we both should watch porn and he got mad, not sure why.

No I think you might be giving him dead penis, my wife is doing the same thing to me. First she went months for years without giving me sex. Now she telling me my penis is not staying hard. Yea blow me some time. Laying back like a bag of potatoes and it's my fault. I can't think about sex because am not getting sh*t. Go blow your husband a few times see if that works

Pornography... why would you even mention it if you didn't know deep down that's the real problem here? Your husband is addicted to porn, he needs to go to counseling and fix this. Him watching porn and fantasizing about these women is CHEATING. He is getting bored of regular sex because he wants to do what he sees in porn. This is dangerous. It has NOTHING to do with you and all to do with him and his deep disrespect for you. He needs to stop, or this will only get worse. I am so sorry.

I have main problem quick ejaculation

Ladies don't convince your man his a gay... That's an influence.... Men you were not born to become a gay that's not the will of the lord.... And if you're one good luck... Keep being straight... Go to the pharmacy or see a doctor.... Don't become a bi

Ok this can cause by poor circulation... also emotional stress, inadequate sleeps, and , unresolve issues....

I love men like that... Many wish to be Like you....

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