I have a "relaxed" colon, and lost the sensation to move my bowels, so for six months now I've been manipulating the waste manualy to come out. I never get it fully out and my intestines stay backed up for long periods of time. After an attempted flush with phosphate, my colon is void of any waste for 3 days now even though I eat heavy meals. There is upon inspection, sticky, skin looking substance that beads to my finger. whats going on and what should I do?