This is the worst one yet, its been three weeks since m/c. I desperately want a baby and my emotions are all over the place. I'll be ok one moment and the next I'd be a snivelling wreck and the alarming weight gain doesn't help. I'm 30 years old and had ny 1st m/c at 27. I don't think my age is an issue and now i think there's something really wrong with me. I don't want to be childless and I've always wanted at least 3 or 4 children. Time isn't on my side anymore, but now I have been told by my Doc I will have to wait for the hospital to contact me about tests done to see what the problem is (NHS waiting lists could take 6months or more!). I want to try again soon but I don't think I can go through another m/c. To me it's the most painful thing that anyone can go through as you can feel so alone and misunderstood, unlike an illness or a death of a loved one because at least you get automatic sympathy and undertanding.
Is there anyone out there who understands, and has gone through the same?
Is there anyone out there who understands, and has gone through the same?
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Dear catsup
My heart really goes out to you. I am so sorry what you are going through but please take the test to see what is going on
Hugs
Mary
My heart really goes out to you. I am so sorry what you are going through but please take the test to see what is going on
Hugs
Mary
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Dear Catsup
Sorry to hear about your m/c's - i myself am in the same boat
I have suffered 3 miscarriages 1@ 14wks, picked up at 1st scan, 1 at 6wks and another at 5wks (just last week)
I am feeling very tearful and just cannot understand why this keeps happening to me, all i have heard from the doctors is that it is very common and to keep trying, this just makes me so angry as the emotional turmoil is just too much for me and i like yourself am an emotional wreck, crying one minute and positive thiking the next
I wonder will i ever have a child of my own and ut seems like no one really understands the pain ...I feel so alone
Sorry to hear about your m/c's - i myself am in the same boat
I have suffered 3 miscarriages 1@ 14wks, picked up at 1st scan, 1 at 6wks and another at 5wks (just last week)
I am feeling very tearful and just cannot understand why this keeps happening to me, all i have heard from the doctors is that it is very common and to keep trying, this just makes me so angry as the emotional turmoil is just too much for me and i like yourself am an emotional wreck, crying one minute and positive thiking the next
I wonder will i ever have a child of my own and ut seems like no one really understands the pain ...I feel so alone
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I also am in the same boat. I am 19 years old and suffered my third miscarriage last week. I just keep thinking why does this happen to me and I can't seem to stay positive... I am okay one minute then sad and crying the next, I really don't know what to do. His parents are "have sex after marriage" and we slipped up on that rule.... so now I have to be really careful around his parents to not cry and not think about it and it is getting very hard on me. We are both still living at home waiting for our relationship to progress and develop into something more before we move in together, plus we are both broke so can not afford to move out. I really don't know what to do and really need some advice.
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sorry for your your loss :-/ I had 2 miscarriages around 12 weeks before i got pregnant with my little boy sean. Everything was going great or at least i thought they were, but at my 5 month scan it showed he had many problems and inside his head most of his brain was missing. they told us hed never know who we were, be able to move etc and would have constant fits and there would be nothing they could do for him. they said it was not likely he would live long. so me and my partner opted for a late termination at 24 weeks . . we felt it was the kindest thing we could do for him.
I had to go through the whole delivery, it was awful. but i got to hold him and spend time with him. such a beautiful baby. they told us it was a genetic problem and may happen again.
I never thought Id have any kids after that, and like you . . i always wanted kids. That was in 2007, and the point i want to make is that things do get better i promise. you just have to stick at it and try to remain positive. I now have 2 healthy children, Sophie 18 months and Leon 8 months. We're going to try for another soon :-)
please dont give up hope. Im not a religious person, however i like to think things happen for a reason. after all if i hadnt lost sean i wouldnt have my sophie and leon now. Im so glad i tried again and didnt give up.
I wish you all the luck in the world ladies . . your time will come and when it does youl be sooooo ready for it and make wonderful mummies xx
I had to go through the whole delivery, it was awful. but i got to hold him and spend time with him. such a beautiful baby. they told us it was a genetic problem and may happen again.
I never thought Id have any kids after that, and like you . . i always wanted kids. That was in 2007, and the point i want to make is that things do get better i promise. you just have to stick at it and try to remain positive. I now have 2 healthy children, Sophie 18 months and Leon 8 months. We're going to try for another soon :-)
please dont give up hope. Im not a religious person, however i like to think things happen for a reason. after all if i hadnt lost sean i wouldnt have my sophie and leon now. Im so glad i tried again and didnt give up.
I wish you all the luck in the world ladies . . your time will come and when it does youl be sooooo ready for it and make wonderful mummies xx
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