Hi, I am a 28 YO female dating my bf for a while now. I get turned on quickly but each time we make love, I can just not cum. I try and try and suddenly just loose it!!! It is frustrating and I don't know why this could be.
For a past few times, I have also felt a little pain in the lower abdomen during sex. Its becoming worse by the day and is embarrasing for me now.
Is there anything you could help me with? Why is it happening? Is there something I can do to fix this problem?
For a past few times, I have also felt a little pain in the lower abdomen during sex. Its becoming worse by the day and is embarrasing for me now.
Is there anything you could help me with? Why is it happening? Is there something I can do to fix this problem?
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well...do you exercise regularly? maybe your muscles are just too tight and get strained and cramped in certain positions...
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I used to have the exact same problem. almost so that the pain after wards was just so annoying it made me not want to have sex sometimes. what I noticed is that the pain is probably coming from putting so much tension on those muscles (thats what I think). I havent had it for a while and it went better after I just started masturbating a lot to practice. sounds weird but its the only way to find out how u get stimulated the best. the pressure is off cause u are by urself anyway. I always used to masturbate in the shower and couldnt cum if I just did it with my hands, now I can. found my g-spot etc. know what muscles to tighten or relax at what point. if u know ur body well enough u should be able to give urself an orgasm during sex too. rub urself while he is penetrating u, like you do when he's not there. And another good thing would be long foreplay. so much that u are almost there. then he'll probably just need to penetrate u and the job is done.
Good luck, hope it helps
Good luck, hope it helps
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