This is an extremely frustrating problem for me, especially since I can't seem to find anyone else with the same problem! So I finally broke down and decided to ask myself, rather than search vainly on google any longer.
I'm seventeen years old, and I've been "masturbating" for many years. The problem is, I never get much pleasure from it, and it even usually results in pain. I've never inserted anything into my vagina before, as I'm too scared that I'll do something wrong, and of pain. I guess the real problem is that I'm too scared to do much of anything down there, probably as a result of previous experience.
What I do do, is stimulate the clitoral hood, and the lips. I don't get very much pleasure from this.. and before I even come close to orgasm, usually around when I start feeling a bit more pleasure, I get this pain. I'm not sure where it's coming from, but even the thought of touching between my legs is out of the question. The only reason I even masturbate is because I can't take being aroused any longer, and after this pain comes, I don't even want to think about sex any more.
Anyway, just today I tried the bath tub method, and it was working for a while, and I thought, "Finally. Something that works" But again, right as I started to feel any higher level of pleasure, this pain kicked in.
It's kind of like I'm very hard to stimulate, but then suddenly very sensitive.. It's very odd, and very frustrating.
Any opinions, thoughts, suggestions. Anything. Is welcome, at this point. Sorry if I didn't make much sense, or if I wrote too much.
Thanks
I'm seventeen years old, and I've been "masturbating" for many years. The problem is, I never get much pleasure from it, and it even usually results in pain. I've never inserted anything into my vagina before, as I'm too scared that I'll do something wrong, and of pain. I guess the real problem is that I'm too scared to do much of anything down there, probably as a result of previous experience.
What I do do, is stimulate the clitoral hood, and the lips. I don't get very much pleasure from this.. and before I even come close to orgasm, usually around when I start feeling a bit more pleasure, I get this pain. I'm not sure where it's coming from, but even the thought of touching between my legs is out of the question. The only reason I even masturbate is because I can't take being aroused any longer, and after this pain comes, I don't even want to think about sex any more.
Anyway, just today I tried the bath tub method, and it was working for a while, and I thought, "Finally. Something that works" But again, right as I started to feel any higher level of pleasure, this pain kicked in.
It's kind of like I'm very hard to stimulate, but then suddenly very sensitive.. It's very odd, and very frustrating.
Any opinions, thoughts, suggestions. Anything. Is welcome, at this point. Sorry if I didn't make much sense, or if I wrote too much.
Thanks
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well, try to relax a bit, and give yourself longer time caressing your body, and do it gently. Give yourself more time holding your breasts, and more gentle time for between your legs and thighs..may it ease the pain a bit..
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