Dear all,
I am kind of ashamed to write this but I think it is the most convenient place to talk about these things.
I am a 27 yrs old female,I have had few boyfriends,and recently my boyfriend is very upset with me,or kind of worried because he thinks that I never have orgasm.Quite ashamed to tell but I also think that I have never had orgasm.
I feel always very close but I think I only had orgasm once.
Why could that be?
Do you think that I have a problem?
Isn't that strange for a female not to be sure totally about having orgasm or not?
Please,I need your advices,please help me.
Thank you very much
G.
I am kind of ashamed to write this but I think it is the most convenient place to talk about these things.
I am a 27 yrs old female,I have had few boyfriends,and recently my boyfriend is very upset with me,or kind of worried because he thinks that I never have orgasm.Quite ashamed to tell but I also think that I have never had orgasm.
I feel always very close but I think I only had orgasm once.
Why could that be?
Do you think that I have a problem?
Isn't that strange for a female not to be sure totally about having orgasm or not?
Please,I need your advices,please help me.
Thank you very much
G.
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You have to tell bf what you need. When he hits on that spot that feels the best and brings you close to an orgasm, you have to tell him to stay where he is.
You can also experiment by yourself. Masterbation is a good way to figure out just what feels the best for you.
Some women have such furious orgasms that they actually need to rest after. While others have a little "aagh" and it's over. It depends on the person. If bf does what he is supposed to, you will get off for sure.
Guide his hands or his mouth to the spot where you are feeling real good. Keep him there. Do some Kegals while he is doing his thing. Squeeze your vaginal muscles together as hard as you can, you will feel it, and it feels really good.
You may need some extra TLC. Some women take longer to get off.
You must be relaxed and well lubricated.
Don't hesitate to experiment with yourself, this is when when you see how your kegals are done. Just squeeze. You are axtually strengthening the vaginal floor keeping you nice and tight.
You can also experiment by yourself. Masterbation is a good way to figure out just what feels the best for you.
Some women have such furious orgasms that they actually need to rest after. While others have a little "aagh" and it's over. It depends on the person. If bf does what he is supposed to, you will get off for sure.
Guide his hands or his mouth to the spot where you are feeling real good. Keep him there. Do some Kegals while he is doing his thing. Squeeze your vaginal muscles together as hard as you can, you will feel it, and it feels really good.
You may need some extra TLC. Some women take longer to get off.
You must be relaxed and well lubricated.
Don't hesitate to experiment with yourself, this is when when you see how your kegals are done. Just squeeze. You are axtually strengthening the vaginal floor keeping you nice and tight.
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Thank you bbfeet9!
I will try...I have tried but did not seem to work..
Maybe the problem is also that my bf has sometimes erection problems..and when it is good,I concentrate on him to keep him on that stage so that means that I forget about myself..all seems to be about him...From now on I should start to tell him what I like too..well thank you very much for taking your time to write me help me,appreciate that.
G
I will try...I have tried but did not seem to work..
Maybe the problem is also that my bf has sometimes erection problems..and when it is good,I concentrate on him to keep him on that stage so that means that I forget about myself..all seems to be about him...From now on I should start to tell him what I like too..well thank you very much for taking your time to write me help me,appreciate that.
G
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Let me tell ya gudi, sometimes we as women do have to be a little selfish in the sex department. Not in a mean way, but hey, we gotta get ours to, right? Don't focus so hard on bf, he gets off doesn't he? This whole sex thing can be mutual. If he needs a little extra help in that department, by all means, help him along, but don't forget, the pendulum swings both ways.
By all means, tell the boy what you want. And ya know, sometimes an aggressive lover (you) can be a turn on. Don't dismember him, just use a little attitude. It will probably turn you on as well. Have fun and let us know. ;-)
By all means, tell the boy what you want. And ya know, sometimes an aggressive lover (you) can be a turn on. Don't dismember him, just use a little attitude. It will probably turn you on as well. Have fun and let us know. ;-)
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