Post tubal ligation syndrome - Part 2

Those of you with no probs are lucky I am 33 and this last week I was proclaimed to be perimenopausal and my fsh has risen to 11.6 in one cycle testing day three at that rate in two months I will be proclaimed post meno. I have not taken birth control for years and I had nirmal four day periods I now have 14 day periods sometimes twice monthly and now I have been bleeding for sixteen days I have terrible pain mood swings and no sex drive, can't orgasm anymore I'm sick of these stupid people who say this comes from birth control it does not!also I will not take birth control cause guess what I had a tubal so I would not have to. I'm on eight different meds had normal ultrasounds and blood work and no one can explain symptoms one dr tried to send me to a counselor cause "its all in your head"and push an ablation/hyster on me. I'm sorry but any dr wwho does either of those is not trying to solve the problem they are trying to shut you up both ofbhese proceedures can actuakly make thibgs worse check outbpost tubal ablation syndrome and ovarian failure with hyst- tubals damage your ovaries and that is why these sympoms occur and so they will not function normally after a hyst as your doctor will try to tell you that they will. You will then be in menopause like my 29 year old friend who was told that. I am 30 lbs overweight and its all in my belly despite 1200 calorie daily diets and an hour of exercise daily and I cant have sex too much pain. My life is over and I can no longer raise my kids and am on the verge of losing my job because of this. I can't even fry the mobeybr,to have it reversed so I am stuck and there are days that I seriously think of endingnit all!! I just want my life back and I will never have it!

I also had a laproscopic tubal this past november and I dont have very many issues but I have to say I dont feel the same as before. I have been recently getting lil jabs of pain near my bellybutton the lower right side where my ovary is hurts off and on like it swels to a lump. My sex drive is normal but now it is a lil tender havin intercourse only on that right side. I have yet to gain weight and I refuse to do so. I thought this was a good idea but I realize that even if it stops me from having kids ( drs refused to give me birth control cuz I smoke and I wont do an iud) I dont like the way the makes me feel