your probably going to think it is so wrong, i am 15, this guy i met is 30. i slept with him, without protection, im not on the pill or anything. (please note, that he told me he was 17 when i slept with him until the next morning) and i have been sick ever since. feeling like im going to vomit all the time, i dont know what to do anymore. and he is from the phillipenes, and he goes back there soon, for good. if im carrying his child, i want him to know, and i dont know how i am going to tell him, or what i am going to do. :-( please helppp. :-(
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There are some steps you need to take before you go an tell him that you think you are pregnant.
1) Are you really pregnant? go take a test.
2) Get a HIV/STD test
3) BUY protection for the future!
You haven't really gone into to much detail about your problem, for example:Did you just meet this man? or have you known him?
The more details you give, the more help you can get.
I'm just curious though, how could you have mistaken a 30 year old man for a 17 old boy? I know he said he was 17 but really... was he that good at disguising himself? At this point, age isn't even relevant to your problem, what is relevant are the choices you are going to have to make if you are pregnant. Are you going to keep it? or abort? Are you going to tell him? or not? Are you going to take care of your child? or put it up for adoption? Did this man give you a virus or disease? or just a heartbreak?
1) Are you really pregnant? go take a test.
2) Get a HIV/STD test
3) BUY protection for the future!
You haven't really gone into to much detail about your problem, for example:Did you just meet this man? or have you known him?
The more details you give, the more help you can get.
I'm just curious though, how could you have mistaken a 30 year old man for a 17 old boy? I know he said he was 17 but really... was he that good at disguising himself? At this point, age isn't even relevant to your problem, what is relevant are the choices you are going to have to make if you are pregnant. Are you going to keep it? or abort? Are you going to tell him? or not? Are you going to take care of your child? or put it up for adoption? Did this man give you a virus or disease? or just a heartbreak?
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First of all, this whole thing is illegal. It doesn't matter how much you wanted him or how much he wanted you, he basically raped you. How in the world did he ever convince you he was 17? He knows the law of the land, that is why he didn't tell you the truth and picked the number 17. He knew that even if he told you he was 18, he could still be in a world of c**p.
If you are pregnant and you want him to know, it sounds like your going thru with pregnancy, which means your parents will be involved. I don't know your circumstances and i don't know your parents but if i was your mom, that guy would be behind bars. It would happen so fast there would be no time for an explanation.
This is just my opinion but i know many people carry there age very well and are mistaken for being younger, but 30, you had to have known.
If you are pregnant and you want him to know, it sounds like your going thru with pregnancy, which means your parents will be involved. I don't know your circumstances and i don't know your parents but if i was your mom, that guy would be behind bars. It would happen so fast there would be no time for an explanation.
This is just my opinion but i know many people carry there age very well and are mistaken for being younger, but 30, you had to have known.
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