Pregnant?? I am so worried

Hi honey! I'm a bit confused so lets get to the bottom of this together OK?

1. When you said that your friends said that the guy needs to change his condom right away, does that mean you guys didn't OR is it that he didn't wear a condom?
2. When you said he pulled out - does that mean he ejaculates outside you?
3. Every test is different, so what did the box say - about the test results?
4. Did you follow the test exactly as stated - first urine in the morning and waited the right amount of time - and not too long?

1) he does use condoms, but after he ejaculates into the condom we keep going. my friend said that if u do that then the pressure on the condom will make the cum go to the top of the condom and into the girls vagina without realizing it..

2) The one time we didn't use a condom was a few months ago, and he pulled out before he ejaculated.

3) I don't know what the box said, my friend red the box and told me exactly what to do.. and so I did it. about 5-10 minuets later the second line showed up..

4) It wasn't my first urine of the day.. but It was my second. We waited the right amount of time.


My friends have a feeling that I am pregnant. They are 99% of the time right when they have a feeling. Not to mention the fact that the people I went to see when I went to have a second test, they said the test came up negative, but that it was more than likely a false negative. I really want to figure it out.. but like I said I am to scared to tell my g-parents.

IT's usually a false positive from evaporation lines - I think the 5 - 10 minute was too long! And also the condom would have to be quite loose for the semen to come out the top! There is a well in the bottom of the condom - where the ejaculate goes and it can contain the entire amount of 1 ejaculate! Tommorrow take another test - 1st urine and follow the instructions exactly = if it shows a positve right away then you are pregnant, if it is a negative you are not! I want you to know that even if you have unprotected sex and he pulls out you can still get pregnant! In each ejaculate there are 1,million sperm! In 1 drop there are 10,000 sperm and ALL you need is 1 sperm to make it through and make you pregnnat! STOP listening to your friends OK and get the real facts! you CAN get pregnant at any time of the month! Sperm can live for days inside the uterus! And you can ovulate at different times each month! Who did you go to see for the 2nd test? And how long after the sex did you take the test?

I took the test three weeks after havin sex.. and I am not just listening to my friends. I am listenin to my aunt who was the same age as me when she had her first child.. and the friend that I ask, well she is pregnant.. This was actually my second time taking that exact same type of test, the first time the second like Never showed up.. I kept checkin it, but it never showed.. this time it did, and I did the test the right way.. This comin up weekend if my boyfriend comes down I am going to go to planned parenthood and see what they say.. Honestly I am ot as scared as I was a few days ago, I know my man will stay with me. People can tell me that he will run, they can tell me that he won't stick around. But fact of the matter is him and I have been together for almost eight months; and even his friends that have known him longer than me, we all know he won't run. Just cause some guys say they won't and then end up doing so don't mean all guys are like that. I bet a lot of the guys also didn't plan on askin their girls parents for her hand in marrage.. as to where mine, he wants to ask them before I tell them.. I know for a fact I am pregnant. There is just no getting around it. I may have taken the test right at the perfect time. but I know for a fact, that I should not feel a second heart beat in my stomach. I know I should not be eating 24/7 or being able to smell really well.. I smoke, I have not had this good of smell since I was 7 or 8. my boobs should not feel like they are a million pounds. I have gained about 5 pounds since saturday.. I am in p.e so its not easy for me to gain weight. When I lay down on my back at night my breathing gets heavier. My friends pants that I had to wear a belt with last week or they would fall down; they stay up, I can jump up and down all day and they will stay up; without help. I am really emotional. I am always tired, but I can never seem to fall asleep.. and when I do if someone makes any little sound or movement I am up. The only time I can actually sleep through an entire night without being woken up is when I am in my man's arms. I have always had nightmares, but lattely they have gotten so bad that I scratch at myself(I didn't know I did that till my best friend and my boyfriend told me I do) The smallest of things piss me off/ or make me really sad/ or really happy. I have had a headache everyday, where I used to only get them once or twice a month. I have been having really bad cramps as if I am on my period, but I know i am not. But the thing that makes me believe with not a doubt in my mind that I am pregnant, is I can feel a second heart beat in my stomach; and I can't suck my stomach in as far as I could four weeks ago.. but oh well. if I am, I am there is no changing it. When the kid is supposed to be born I won't be that far off from being 18, being able to get a job to support it, and being able to move in with my man; so that him and I can raise our son/daughter together.

Hi honey! A lot of women FEEL pregnant before they find out! the heart beat is NOT a baby honey - I promise you that even if you are pregnant - it is from your Aeorta in your stomach! IF the 1st test was after 3 weeks that would have definitely been enough time to show! I think it is a good idea to get checked out by Planned parenthood! Let me know how you make out OK?!

I will deffinatly let you know what happens.

Well, I am deffinatly pregnant..

So I take it you took the test? Since you have decided that you will be keeping the baby, I want you to start taking prenatal vitamins right away OK? These help with the development of the baby! When are you going to tell your grandparents? Do you think they will kick you out!?

I do not think they will kick me out.. But I do not know how to tell them. My boyfriend and I have been talkin about it. He is afraid to tell them, but he is not going to just let me handle it by myself.. I am not sure when we are going to tell them.. I will start takin the vitamins as soon as I can.

Hi honey! I have counselled several other girls on here, and the best thing to do is be a united front and show them you have a plan! And allow them to be unhappy and mad! This isn't what they wanted for you right? So let them vent, and then just show that you both are committed to each other and raising the baby! And that you have a plan also getting a job etc etc. Other young girls didn't give their parents or care givers the chance to be mad! And this WILL back fire!

oka... i will try to buck up the courage to tell them..