I have a friend whosea bit too nervous to join a site like this but asked me to put this topic out there. My friend is seventeen and even though he doesn't masturbate often when he does it never last as long as he hopes. Now here is the real problem, he has a girlfriend and they've been talking about that special time ;-) and he's unsure if he'll be up to her expectations. He's really just worried if she'll leave him
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If the girl really likes him and enjoys spending her time with him, she certainly won’t leave him, at least not at the beginning. (hehhe, just joking)
Is the girl more experienced than your friend is? If she is, she may find it flattering and even enjoy in exploring things with him and help him learn to control his ejaculations. If she is also inexperienced, tell him that using a condom is a must, so that he wouldn’t get her pregnant being inexperienced and unable to control his ejaculations.
Tell your friend that he can practice to last longer during masturbation. During masturbations, he may learn to recognize when ejaculation would occur and try to prevent it. It may be hard at first, but he will certainly get there in time. Tell him not to think only about ejaculating as soon as possible but also to think what he’s doing and to try to recognize the arrival. Then, he should use his pelvic muscles to stop the ejaculation.
He may practice this while urinating by trying to hold his urine flow for some seconds and then continue urinating and so on. It is the same muscle!!!
Is the girl more experienced than your friend is? If she is, she may find it flattering and even enjoy in exploring things with him and help him learn to control his ejaculations. If she is also inexperienced, tell him that using a condom is a must, so that he wouldn’t get her pregnant being inexperienced and unable to control his ejaculations.
Tell your friend that he can practice to last longer during masturbation. During masturbations, he may learn to recognize when ejaculation would occur and try to prevent it. It may be hard at first, but he will certainly get there in time. Tell him not to think only about ejaculating as soon as possible but also to think what he’s doing and to try to recognize the arrival. Then, he should use his pelvic muscles to stop the ejaculation.
He may practice this while urinating by trying to hold his urine flow for some seconds and then continue urinating and so on. It is the same muscle!!!
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